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YOU'RE CUT FROM A DIFFERENT CLOTH

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And then the moment of needing to undo all that you you have done has presented itself.

As you scan over the hours of work and efforting that you have spent years inside of you wonder, why.... why didn't I trust myself back then.

Why was I so unsettled in who I was that I needed to make it look "as good as" theirs.

The whispers came,

"Girl the most magnificent thing about you is that, you stand apart.

You know you'll never fit it.

You're cut from a different cloth.

You've never understood how they can settle for so little.

This little rendezvous you've been having with the pretend you, that was me, REMINDING YOU, how boring it is to settle into an overcrowded room.

You've tried the stand on your chair and shout at them approach.

You've tried the look just like them approach.

You've tried the go to all the parties and invite them back to your party method and even though there are many that have come back to party with you....

They are not the people you am meant to serve.

They are the easy targets

They are the - I want what you have but I'm not willing to do the work tag alongs.

They are great people but they do not light you up, it passionless work.

Essentially they are the cheerleading squad which brings you great comfort and soothes your ego as they sign your praises, yet simultaneously they bring great frustrations because...deep inside, you know you are NOT living up to your potential."

You've ignored that whisper and little by little it has become a booming voice that is now firmly stating. "IT IS TIME"

It's time to undo what is not truly and authentically YOU.

It is time to STOP all doing of what does not represent the cloth from which you were cut.

It is time to stop thinking that looking like them will make you stand out.....

AND IT'S TIME TO START

-Being your magnificent, one of a kind, only you, obnoxious self.

-Trying NOT TO fit it.

-Wrapping yourself in your own dam cloth.

-Remembering that you never intended to settle for so little.

And get to being the one that draws in those ready for what you've got to offer. The ones that have been waiting for you but haven't been able to find you because you were hiding in the crowded room.

Those are the ones that stretch you. The ones that make you squirm because you have no choice but to step into all of who you truly are. They are the ones you are meant to serve.

They are the ones that say - Hell Yes, what's next.

I remember the days oh so well of doing all the need to do's.

-The checking off the to do list

-The creating of perfect images.

-The pre scheduled pre written content.

-The searching for perfect stock photos.

-The right number of times, the right time of day, the right day of the week posts.

-The interacting in so many groups.

-The trying to draw them in.

-All of it.

I remember the day I sat and wrote, "what if you just simply showed up as yourself fully - every single day, invited them on the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?"

The hardest thing in the world to do is TRUT that YOU are enough.

The second hardest thing to do is show up as ONLY {you} every single day.

The third hardest thing is to share vulnerably and authentically without all the pretending.

The fourth hardest this is to wait for all of it to come together in creating the life that you thought, you had to be someone else to have.

The sooner you come to a full STOP the sooner it all happens.

Questions for you to ask yourself.

What am I doing in my life, my work and my relationships right now that is exhausting?

What are the things that do not feel like a fair energy exchange between the time they take from me and what they give me in return?

Those are the things that are not true to who you are. Those are the things you are doing because somewhere along the line someone has indicated you "need" to.

Consider this: If I stopped doing those things today, what would I replace them with that in fact would feel like a natural extension of me - which by default would bring the very results I desire.

Remember,

Life is not hard. Let it be easy.

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PS I cannot wait to jump into the Exactification Smackdown with you.

5 days of journeying into the MAGNIFICENCE of who you are.

5 days of finding what it is and who it is that get's to show up in your life and work everyday thereafter and how to bring your brilliance forward effortlessly.

5 days experiencing what happens when you come to a full stop of anything that is a should and get back to the business of being you.

Draping yourself in that cloth and implementing THE MINDSET AND STRATEGY FOR CRUSHING YOUR GOALS. This is for the Hell Yes, What's Next hustlers who are ready to get results as a result of who they are.

Are you ready?

Excavating the YOU that exists beneath the self doubt

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You've done it.

You have proof that you can do it again and yet without fail...

Somehow just when you start to rip it up and step in fully there it is.

The self doubt, the questioning, the wondering, the comparing, the what will they think.

With all of that comes the chaos of life, someone needs your attention NOW, shit hits the fan, you have a blowout with a friend or partner.

That sinking feeling you know so well. There it is once again. It was only moments earlier that you felt like you were soaring and them BAM.

It's as though it happens on cue.

Every time you get a little braver. Every time you step a little further. Every time you begin to taste it a little more fully, it all comes to a roaring halt.

The self doubt created by someone elses words.
The second guessing of, why is it so easy for them and yet I do the same thing and it's not happening for me?
The wondering of why every time things start to feel good, it all comes crashing down.
The comparing of your work and how you do it, to their work and how they do it.
The thoughts of what will they say, will they respond, will this work, what will they think.

It all leaves you standing there frozen. You've lost your momentum. You can't seem to get yourself motivated to get back in the game. 

AND

When you finally do... you start back at the start, trying something new and hoping that THIS TIME it will work.

We have all been there. It is the natural progression of finally stepping into a fully aligned life.

It is what filters out those that are going to make a difference and be the change, from those that will continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and they just throw in the towel.

Very few are here for the duration.
Very few are doing the actual work they are meant to do.
Very few will continue to show up until the point of finally surrendering to the fact that beneath all that shit....THERE YOU ARE.
Very few will excavate the fluff and BS they have been using to cover themselves up with - in hopes that it will protect them from feeling anything but success and wonderful.

The thing is, until your willing to go to the place where:
You can see the games you play with yourself.
You can detect the BS your own mind is feeding you.
You can align and get to the truth of what has been keeping you right where you are....

You will remain where you stand. 
The start and stop will continue.
The boom and bust will be forever more. 
The cha cha your dancing with yourself will be never ending.

Your last wheel will eventually fall off and you'll throw the towel on the floor.

The self doubt others place upon you.
The questioning of why is it working for them and not for me.
Those that suddenly need you now.
The chaos of life.
The blowout that throws you off course.

It's all self perpetuated.

You have created and will continue to create this cycle until such a time that you are willing to surrender to the fact that - THERE YOU ARE. You are the only one stopping it and YOU are the only one that can transform it.

Are you going to make a difference and be the change or will you continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and just throw in the towel?

If you are going to be one of us, one that is here for the duration, one that is doing what they are truly meant to be doing. If you are going to make a difference and end this start and stop - self sabotage game you're going to need to do a few things.

You're going to have to get real with exactly where you are in this moment.

You're going to have to be willing to see what you have been doing to keep you right where you are.

You're going to have to learn how to act from alignment. I'm not talking the froufrou version of this feels good to me, or I like how this feels, or I desire to feel like this nonsense.

That has nothing to do with alignment. Making choices based on what feels good has zero relation to actually aligning with your highest, truest version of you and acting from that place.

Let's be honest for a moment. If you were already living the life and doing the work that you say you want to be experiencing....would you be making the same choices today in order to maintain and sustain that success?

No you absolutely would not AND if you say you would I call straight up unapologetic BULLSHIT.

The simple fact is, if what you are currently doing was going to bring you to that life - you would currently be living it. And you are not, therefore you would not. It's not arguable, it's a mute point.

That being said, at least 50% of those reading this will argue it because the idea of looking at where they suck STINGS LIKE HELL. They are in the grouping of - continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and then just throw in the towel?

Surrender to the fact that you'd rather be comfortable than be aligned, see it for what it is, flip it around and MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Or don't.

Either way you will know what to expect and the mysteriousness of your next chaotic set back seemingly happening on cue, will no longer be mysterious.

We really dove into this today in the 90 second interval training. If you were there, you are one that will make a difference. If you didn't catch it and want the replay go grab it HERE

Remember,
Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS. Generalization is the death of your success. 
Discipline your ass to tap in and do ONLY and EXACTLY what needs to be done, tap in to the exact aligned actions you need to follow. 

In this work we: 

Will not be worrying about what others want
Will not be trying to ensure they feel connected to you
Will not be focusing on what you know they need
Will not be creating what you hope they like

You can forget about all of that, because they are organically and authentically drawn into your every word….the ones that are meant to be with you that is. They have no idea who you are, they have no idea where you have been, nor do they care. 

What they KNOW is you ARE THE EXACT PERSON FOR THEM.

And they know because you have tapped in, aligned and TURNED YOUR TRUEST SELF on.

Stop staying comfortable. 
Stop playing small. 
Stop believing you don't know because….

YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO KNOW.

We will not be mindlessly hustling
We will not be doing for doing sake or for because they said you need to sake.

You will be perfecting PURPOSEFUL HUSTLE 
You will be tapping into PRODUCTIVE FLOW

The Exactification of it all is Purposeful Hustle and Productive Flow.

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The Exactification Smackdow

WHEN YOU'RE NOT LIVING THE LIFE YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE, THIS IS PROBABLY WHY

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No longer putting off, postponing or procrastinating doing the things that expand, grow and transform my life and business. Sounds so easy. You sing it as though it's a cheer that you personally created. And then it all falls flat.

Getting sucked into the mindless scroll while just checking in for a minute, (because the world may have changed while you were away) to see what's going on. An hour latter (or more) and you’re now at the depths of the deep black hole.

You've not only NOT grown, expanded or transformed but you have chosen to sit stagnant in the same shit you've sat in for ages all while wondering when will I catch a break, when will it be my turn, when will success knock on my door?

You whine and complain to yourself about wishing you had more energy. You hear the conversation on repeat in your head about how one day you are going to live the life of your dreams. You tell yourself you know exactly what you need to do and that you're the only one standing in your way.

And yet....

You choose and decide daily to keep doing all the things that sabotage you rather than stepping directly into what will expand, grow and transform your life.

So then clearly, you love and adore feeling exactly the way you feel. Clearly you are passionate about feeling stuck and stagnant. Obviously what you truthfully desire is to stay right where you are.....

NOOOOO???

So then shit or get off the pot.

This is getting ridiculous.

Stop being such a hypocrite.

Enough pretending.

No more avoiding.

Drop the excuses.

Rationalize and justify no longer.

OWN IT..... I am a fraud.

I say I want white yet I run to black.

I claim I am worthy but will not allow myself to have it.

I preach when the time is right I will.... and then I ensure the time is never right.

All of this has been my truth at different times.

All of this has stirred frustration, resentment and anxiety inside of me at different times.

All of this has left me wanting to scream at myself different times.

Rationalization and justification were my sidekicks. They made it ALL ok. They made me feel good.

UNTIL I was willing to see the truth of what I was doing.

Truth often SUCKS, especially your own truth directed at yourself.

Real, raw, vulnerable truth.

The kind that leads you straight towards...

Expansion - Growth - Transformation

There is only one thing that you need even more than you need truth and that is discipline.

Discipline to repeatedly hold yourself accountable to seeing your truth. To seeing your excuses. To seeing your lies. To seeing what you are CHOOSING which in fact is in direct opposition to what you say you want.

So what's it going to be?

Are you going to commit to the mindless scroll hours a day?

Are you going to commit to validating your worth and your work by the # of likes you get?

Are you going to commit to distracting yourself dozens of times a day?

Are you going to commit to why you can't right now, not yet?

Are you going to commit to using others as your escape?

Or just maybe, is it actually now time?

Time to commit to your inner work for hours a day.

Time to commit to validating your worth and your work by how you show up daily.

Time to commit to seeing when you are getting sucked in dozens of times a day.

Time to commit to it's time, right now.

Time to commit to showing up in your own life so that others can grow, expand and transform their lives as well - thanks to you?

So what's it going to be?

What do you have to gain by continuing the way you are?

What can you expect things to look like if you repeatedly choose the way you have been?

For how long are you willing to buy into your own excuses?

There are all kinds of reasons people fall into this way of existing, if you can even call it that. It's not really their fault. They are just doing what everyone else is doing, they've gotten sucked in.

You on the other hand, I know are not a follower. You are a leader, one that desires to make a difference in the lives of others. One that is committed to truth in all forms.

You have a willingness to see what needs to be seen in order to grow, expand and transform your life. It begins here and now. The opportunity for you to do so is right here. Get to the truth of the matter, rip the bandaid off, stop trying to protect yourself from yourself and dive in.

Don't allow yourself to do one more thing, don't get off your chair, don't check a notification, don't get out of the car, don't pour a coffee until you make yourself answer these questions.

What do you have to gain by continuing the way you are?

What can you expect things to look like if you repeatedly choose the way you have been?

For how long are you willing to buy into your own excuses?

The purpose of these questions, which I would highly suggest you journal on daily....up until a time that you cannot only see but also feel how ridiculous it all is and you begin to laugh at yourself for ever thinking it was a good idea to play these games with yourself.

Is to allow you to see that indeed the stories you had been telling yourself, the excuses you were making, the distractions you were engaging in were just that. Once you sit with all of this and allow the truth to be seen and felt you will automatically begin to choose actions and efforts that will indeed grow, expand and transform your life..... because you will see that for you there is no other option.

You are not someone who continually self sabotages once you have seen what you are doing. You demand of yourself to grow, expand and transform. It's what you do, it's who you are.

The clearer you get on all of this, the deeper truths you are willing to admit, the easier it becomes to act from alignment and to know what actions need to be taken that you have been avoiding.

And once you have answered those questions (AND NOT UNTIL) begin to answer these: (daily, until you live the results you are expecting)

What I choose to consciously commit to is...

By disciplining myself and not allowing myself to get sucked into distractions I can expect.....

By committing to my inner work first {every day} without exception I can expect....

By committing to continually be aware of when I am getting sucked in and then returning to aligned action I can expect....

What the hell is the Inner Work Angie?!?!

Get to the truth of you every single day.

Learn who you are beyond what the mind and ego wold have you believe.

Align with soul and hear what you're being told and guided to do in every minute.

The perfect place to dive into all of that is RIGHT HERE.

365 days of FREE Soul Upgrades.

Short, sweet, to the point POWERFUL, LIFE CHANGING, EXPANDING journal/contemplation prompts.

Remember,

Life’s not meant to be hard. Let it be easy

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Not that I am surprised however it excites me to no end to hear that they are returning to the daily work over and over going deeper and deeper each time.

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What Got You Here, Will Never Get You There.

Soul Work

If you were to swim to the depths of your soul and only bring back what you found at it’s core, leaving all else to exist in the murky waters, freeing yourself of it…..

You would begin to live the life you were meant to live.

Should, have to and can’t would now be a part of the deep blue sea.

You’ve pushed, struggled, hustled and done everything you know to do. It’s gotten you to where you are today and yet now you feel stuck.

You are continually thinking, “I haven’t come this far to only come this far. But how the hell do I get unstuck?”  The old ways are no longer moving you forward.

You’re not the person you were then. Those things were the next steps of what you needed to do THEN not NOW.

Now, the more you push and effort the less things feel right and easy.

So what the hell?

It’s time.

Time to dive deep, to align, to connect and to trust.

It’s time to learn the path to your soul and to ONLY retrieve what lives within it, letting everything else fade away.

You dream of an easier life yet you work twice as hard.

You envision months of vacation time but you’re not willing to take a day off.

You crave open time in your days and you fill every minute.

You want financial freedom but repeatedly retell yourself the story of I can’t afford it.

You miss deep connection however you constantly disregard all connection to and with yourself.

And you do all of it in the name of getting what you want, living your dreams, realizing success and having it all.

You’re doing it all backwards. You’re drowning yourself. You’re the one bringing all the shit into your life that you’re fighting so hard to be free from.

Stop holding your breath and pretending that when you come to the surface there’s going to be magic waiting.

If you want that life, create the dam life and not by spending your days doing the exact opposite of what you ONE DAY hope for.

You’ll never get it by doing it once you have gotten “there”.

You get it by doing everything you don’t feel ready to do.

Everything that “normal” people wait to do until they reach the success that brings “that life” with it.…which is also why they never end up getting there and they live in dream land forever. Or they remain miserable, I’m certain you know a few of those kinds too. 

Because it’s those things that take you there.

Remember, life is not meant to be hard.

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STOP the MADNESS at Once.

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It’s all bullshit and it needs to stop. It’s heard mentality, it’s fear mongering, it’s low consciousness.


You listen to them carefully and you act accordingly so what the heck's the problem?


Someone is giving you the secret, the recipe, the formula the ABSOLUTELY must do’s or you’ll never be successful in anything in your life or your work AND….


It’s all bullshit.


Let’s get a few things straight from the start.


What appears as success may indeed be, on the verge of bankruptcy.

Hell I’ve been there only, I went the whole way.


It make look like extreme hustle and nose to the grind, yet behind the scenes it’s a panic attack and anxiety requiring pill popping to calm that shit down. YES that was me.


It make look like incredible discipline and organization. Both sucking tremendous amounts of time and NOT moving the needle one bit and sabotaging the relationship that matter the most.


It make look like plans, lists and vision boards that are completed over and over again all while the last ones are laying crumpled on the floor or stuffed in your drawer - never having been looked at or referred to after having spent all the time on it because that was what the secret was to making the difference in your success.


How many times have you taken action in your life or work because you have heard someone (that of course you perceive to be successful) say to be successful you M U S T do ………


If that person was so dam successful would they need to convince you that you need to DO WHAT THEY DO or that you need them and must pay them to get what they have???


STOP the MADNESS at once.


It’s all bullshit and it needs to stop. It’s heard mentality, it’s fear mongering, it’s low consciousness.


I have no time for it and neither should you.


There is one thing and one thing only that is going to move you forward in any and every area of life. It’s no secret!


Align with your soul, highest self, already successful self who’s waiting for you to come meet her.


And FEEL into what is truly aligned for you. Before you go back to writing your list and thinking about what is aligned DROP the pen. Thats the mind doing more of what you’ve already done above.


Feel, I mean tap into what is ACTUALLY aligned for you. What feels good for you. Make your own rules based on what feels right for you, then and ONLY then take action.


If it is aligned for you to hustle because the truth is that lights you up and you know that is how you best sever the world. If it rules your passion and never leaves you exhausted or burnt out DO IT.


If it is aligned for you to right list after list, checking them off, sticking to them and focusing on that list because you know that is going to bring you to your dreams the fastest and you need that visual accountability to your self DO IT.


If it is aligned for you to focus souly on your business/work 14 hours a day and cut out most other relationships and life experiences because that is your single passion in life and you cannot imagine a day without it DO IT


However if you don’t feel that way about what your doing STOP IT ALL RIGHT NOW.


When you begin to truly align with your soul. When you feel exactly what you need to do and you trust that. When you know with certainty that THAT is right for you.


YOU WILL SUCCEED and IT WILL BECOME EASY


Let me ask you this. Before we had this inter-web of manipulation, fear mongering, heard mentality, I said so, because if you don’t do what I do you’ll never make it…


How do you think anyone figured anything out and actually began living what was once a dream if they didn’t have the whole wide web screaming at them?


Are you up for tuning in and aligning with your soul? 


Yes or No? Let me know in the comments.


Remember, life is not meant to be hard.

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