unapologetically you

YOU'RE CUT FROM A DIFFERENT CLOTH

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And then the moment of needing to undo all that you you have done has presented itself.

As you scan over the hours of work and efforting that you have spent years inside of you wonder, why.... why didn't I trust myself back then.

Why was I so unsettled in who I was that I needed to make it look "as good as" theirs.

The whispers came,

"Girl the most magnificent thing about you is that, you stand apart.

You know you'll never fit it.

You're cut from a different cloth.

You've never understood how they can settle for so little.

This little rendezvous you've been having with the pretend you, that was me, REMINDING YOU, how boring it is to settle into an overcrowded room.

You've tried the stand on your chair and shout at them approach.

You've tried the look just like them approach.

You've tried the go to all the parties and invite them back to your party method and even though there are many that have come back to party with you....

They are not the people you am meant to serve.

They are the easy targets

They are the - I want what you have but I'm not willing to do the work tag alongs.

They are great people but they do not light you up, it passionless work.

Essentially they are the cheerleading squad which brings you great comfort and soothes your ego as they sign your praises, yet simultaneously they bring great frustrations because...deep inside, you know you are NOT living up to your potential."

You've ignored that whisper and little by little it has become a booming voice that is now firmly stating. "IT IS TIME"

It's time to undo what is not truly and authentically YOU.

It is time to STOP all doing of what does not represent the cloth from which you were cut.

It is time to stop thinking that looking like them will make you stand out.....

AND IT'S TIME TO START

-Being your magnificent, one of a kind, only you, obnoxious self.

-Trying NOT TO fit it.

-Wrapping yourself in your own dam cloth.

-Remembering that you never intended to settle for so little.

And get to being the one that draws in those ready for what you've got to offer. The ones that have been waiting for you but haven't been able to find you because you were hiding in the crowded room.

Those are the ones that stretch you. The ones that make you squirm because you have no choice but to step into all of who you truly are. They are the ones you are meant to serve.

They are the ones that say - Hell Yes, what's next.

I remember the days oh so well of doing all the need to do's.

-The checking off the to do list

-The creating of perfect images.

-The pre scheduled pre written content.

-The searching for perfect stock photos.

-The right number of times, the right time of day, the right day of the week posts.

-The interacting in so many groups.

-The trying to draw them in.

-All of it.

I remember the day I sat and wrote, "what if you just simply showed up as yourself fully - every single day, invited them on the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?"

The hardest thing in the world to do is TRUT that YOU are enough.

The second hardest thing to do is show up as ONLY {you} every single day.

The third hardest thing is to share vulnerably and authentically without all the pretending.

The fourth hardest this is to wait for all of it to come together in creating the life that you thought, you had to be someone else to have.

The sooner you come to a full STOP the sooner it all happens.

Questions for you to ask yourself.

What am I doing in my life, my work and my relationships right now that is exhausting?

What are the things that do not feel like a fair energy exchange between the time they take from me and what they give me in return?

Those are the things that are not true to who you are. Those are the things you are doing because somewhere along the line someone has indicated you "need" to.

Consider this: If I stopped doing those things today, what would I replace them with that in fact would feel like a natural extension of me - which by default would bring the very results I desire.

Remember,

Life is not hard. Let it be easy.

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PS I cannot wait to jump into the Exactification Smackdown with you.

5 days of journeying into the MAGNIFICENCE of who you are.

5 days of finding what it is and who it is that get's to show up in your life and work everyday thereafter and how to bring your brilliance forward effortlessly.

5 days experiencing what happens when you come to a full stop of anything that is a should and get back to the business of being you.

Draping yourself in that cloth and implementing THE MINDSET AND STRATEGY FOR CRUSHING YOUR GOALS. This is for the Hell Yes, What's Next hustlers who are ready to get results as a result of who they are.

Are you ready?

Excavating the YOU that exists beneath the self doubt

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You've done it.

You have proof that you can do it again and yet without fail...

Somehow just when you start to rip it up and step in fully there it is.

The self doubt, the questioning, the wondering, the comparing, the what will they think.

With all of that comes the chaos of life, someone needs your attention NOW, shit hits the fan, you have a blowout with a friend or partner.

That sinking feeling you know so well. There it is once again. It was only moments earlier that you felt like you were soaring and them BAM.

It's as though it happens on cue.

Every time you get a little braver. Every time you step a little further. Every time you begin to taste it a little more fully, it all comes to a roaring halt.

The self doubt created by someone elses words.
The second guessing of, why is it so easy for them and yet I do the same thing and it's not happening for me?
The wondering of why every time things start to feel good, it all comes crashing down.
The comparing of your work and how you do it, to their work and how they do it.
The thoughts of what will they say, will they respond, will this work, what will they think.

It all leaves you standing there frozen. You've lost your momentum. You can't seem to get yourself motivated to get back in the game. 

AND

When you finally do... you start back at the start, trying something new and hoping that THIS TIME it will work.

We have all been there. It is the natural progression of finally stepping into a fully aligned life.

It is what filters out those that are going to make a difference and be the change, from those that will continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and they just throw in the towel.

Very few are here for the duration.
Very few are doing the actual work they are meant to do.
Very few will continue to show up until the point of finally surrendering to the fact that beneath all that shit....THERE YOU ARE.
Very few will excavate the fluff and BS they have been using to cover themselves up with - in hopes that it will protect them from feeling anything but success and wonderful.

The thing is, until your willing to go to the place where:
You can see the games you play with yourself.
You can detect the BS your own mind is feeding you.
You can align and get to the truth of what has been keeping you right where you are....

You will remain where you stand. 
The start and stop will continue.
The boom and bust will be forever more. 
The cha cha your dancing with yourself will be never ending.

Your last wheel will eventually fall off and you'll throw the towel on the floor.

The self doubt others place upon you.
The questioning of why is it working for them and not for me.
Those that suddenly need you now.
The chaos of life.
The blowout that throws you off course.

It's all self perpetuated.

You have created and will continue to create this cycle until such a time that you are willing to surrender to the fact that - THERE YOU ARE. You are the only one stopping it and YOU are the only one that can transform it.

Are you going to make a difference and be the change or will you continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and just throw in the towel?

If you are going to be one of us, one that is here for the duration, one that is doing what they are truly meant to be doing. If you are going to make a difference and end this start and stop - self sabotage game you're going to need to do a few things.

You're going to have to get real with exactly where you are in this moment.

You're going to have to be willing to see what you have been doing to keep you right where you are.

You're going to have to learn how to act from alignment. I'm not talking the froufrou version of this feels good to me, or I like how this feels, or I desire to feel like this nonsense.

That has nothing to do with alignment. Making choices based on what feels good has zero relation to actually aligning with your highest, truest version of you and acting from that place.

Let's be honest for a moment. If you were already living the life and doing the work that you say you want to be experiencing....would you be making the same choices today in order to maintain and sustain that success?

No you absolutely would not AND if you say you would I call straight up unapologetic BULLSHIT.

The simple fact is, if what you are currently doing was going to bring you to that life - you would currently be living it. And you are not, therefore you would not. It's not arguable, it's a mute point.

That being said, at least 50% of those reading this will argue it because the idea of looking at where they suck STINGS LIKE HELL. They are in the grouping of - continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and then just throw in the towel?

Surrender to the fact that you'd rather be comfortable than be aligned, see it for what it is, flip it around and MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Or don't.

Either way you will know what to expect and the mysteriousness of your next chaotic set back seemingly happening on cue, will no longer be mysterious.

We really dove into this today in the 90 second interval training. If you were there, you are one that will make a difference. If you didn't catch it and want the replay go grab it HERE

Remember,
Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS. Generalization is the death of your success. 
Discipline your ass to tap in and do ONLY and EXACTLY what needs to be done, tap in to the exact aligned actions you need to follow. 

In this work we: 

Will not be worrying about what others want
Will not be trying to ensure they feel connected to you
Will not be focusing on what you know they need
Will not be creating what you hope they like

You can forget about all of that, because they are organically and authentically drawn into your every word….the ones that are meant to be with you that is. They have no idea who you are, they have no idea where you have been, nor do they care. 

What they KNOW is you ARE THE EXACT PERSON FOR THEM.

And they know because you have tapped in, aligned and TURNED YOUR TRUEST SELF on.

Stop staying comfortable. 
Stop playing small. 
Stop believing you don't know because….

YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO KNOW.

We will not be mindlessly hustling
We will not be doing for doing sake or for because they said you need to sake.

You will be perfecting PURPOSEFUL HUSTLE 
You will be tapping into PRODUCTIVE FLOW

The Exactification of it all is Purposeful Hustle and Productive Flow.

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Are You Willing To Find who you ACTUALLY in fact are?

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I’ve tried to be so many dam things. One thing here, another thing there.

I'd hear something that resonated deeply that someone else said or did and I was like YUP that's me. And then I"d try that. It felt right for a bit.....

Until, I'd hear someone else say something that resonated and I'd be like, YUP that's me.

It was the "YUP that's me" disease.

Now, there were aspects of each that were true and real to me. They were all PIECES of me. The thing is I flip flopped between them. It left a feeling of incompleteness, uncertainty, fragmentation, a knowing that in fact I was not being "ME" at all.

Hippie

Farmer

Passionate yoga teacher

Spiritual guide

Hard core business coach

So many things, all amazing incredible things, all things that I’m passionate about.

HOWEVER what I know now, is that when I dove into them and tried to be anyone of them 100% I was grasping at what I hopped would feel true and real for me AND that would be accepted by others.

I was only being a piece of me at a time. My work became disjointed. It felt like work. I felt like I was in the business of trying to convince. I felt like a circus act screaming LOOK AT ME, I'm over here and when they didn't look - I'd grasp at the next piece.

It's that grasping at straws, hoping something will stick method.

It's the long route that leads to a dead end where burn out lives beside passionless purpose.

So if those were all pieces of me, what's the big deal, why didn't it work and what else would you do?

What did I realize?

IN FACT what I was doing was hiding from and pushing down what was and is actually and factually me out of a fear of being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.

So if those "pieces" were all part of me and I was to bring it all together marrying everything that I stood for, everything that I know to be true and real through my own experience. If I stopped fearing being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.

What would that mean and how would that look?

Hello, I'm right here. What you see is what you get.

You'll rarely be confused as to what I'm all about and what I have to offer.

You will rarely find anyone else that does what I do, how I do it.

You will rarely find me attracting people who do not align with who I am, how I am and what I am simply because I'll either begin to transform their lives OR I'll piss them off and they'll run.

You see there is no middle ground. BECAUSE, I am all ME.

So the question is, why are you playing hopscotch in the middle ground trying to attract all of those that walk around thinking ahh she's ok, I'll stick around and maybe eventually she'll get to the point.

Just get to the dam point.

Over here with me, I make it super simple for you. There is no question what I do. I make the complex simple. I remove the fluff and bullshit that you cover things up with and I compassionately kick your ass straight into the life you have been wandering around looking for.

Isn't that simple? It's also why my work (aka ME) spans across all areas of your life. It's why you can come to me to sort out one area and by default we sort every area simultaneously. There is a reason, a dam good one I keep telling you to #letitbesimple

You see if your not like me you will run. And for me that is PERFECT because I'm not hear to teach or convince. I'm here to remind you and show you who you actually already are. I'm here to guide you back to that. I'm here to hand you the pitch fork and say, shovel that shit you've covered yourself up with (farmer coming out). I'm here to see what you can't see because your to close to it and nudge you to take another look from a different angle.

"like me" let's be clear, this is not about agreeing with me or believing me.

For the love of God don't believe a thing I say UNTIL you put it into practice and have your own experience of it.

LIKE ME means, hell bent, make shit happen, open, curious and willing. It also means that you KNOW it does not need to be as hard as you are making it, you likely won't know how to make it easy but that's where i come in. What it means above ALL ELSE is you are committed to doing "THE WORK" in order to get the results.

If you've not been around me long you may be saying, "I am doing the work". Stick around, it looks nothing like you would expect it to and it will bring you results that you haven't even yet dreamt up.

Let's get you started right now.

Let's find out who you ACTUALLY are.

Pull out a pen - as in right now. If you’re one of us, you actually do the work you don’t just read the words!!!

At your core, on a cellular level - what do you believe to be true? (don't think about it, just start writing)

Reflecting on your current situation (life, love, work) where are you not living inside of that belief? (if you find your mind telling you that you are....just know that if that was true you'd already have what it is you want. Stop thinking and just write until you find the answer)

What has thrown you off track and lead you down the dead end path?

There you have it, now get to the work of being you.

Stop grasping at straws in hopes something will stick.

Stop mimicking what others are doing in hopes it will work for you.

Stop worrying about if you are going to be noticed.

And get back to the truth of who you ACTUALLY are.

Remember,

Life it not meant to be hard. Let it be easy!

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