success

Excavating the YOU that exists beneath the self doubt

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You've done it.

You have proof that you can do it again and yet without fail...

Somehow just when you start to rip it up and step in fully there it is.

The self doubt, the questioning, the wondering, the comparing, the what will they think.

With all of that comes the chaos of life, someone needs your attention NOW, shit hits the fan, you have a blowout with a friend or partner.

That sinking feeling you know so well. There it is once again. It was only moments earlier that you felt like you were soaring and them BAM.

It's as though it happens on cue.

Every time you get a little braver. Every time you step a little further. Every time you begin to taste it a little more fully, it all comes to a roaring halt.

The self doubt created by someone elses words.
The second guessing of, why is it so easy for them and yet I do the same thing and it's not happening for me?
The wondering of why every time things start to feel good, it all comes crashing down.
The comparing of your work and how you do it, to their work and how they do it.
The thoughts of what will they say, will they respond, will this work, what will they think.

It all leaves you standing there frozen. You've lost your momentum. You can't seem to get yourself motivated to get back in the game. 

AND

When you finally do... you start back at the start, trying something new and hoping that THIS TIME it will work.

We have all been there. It is the natural progression of finally stepping into a fully aligned life.

It is what filters out those that are going to make a difference and be the change, from those that will continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and they just throw in the towel.

Very few are here for the duration.
Very few are doing the actual work they are meant to do.
Very few will continue to show up until the point of finally surrendering to the fact that beneath all that shit....THERE YOU ARE.
Very few will excavate the fluff and BS they have been using to cover themselves up with - in hopes that it will protect them from feeling anything but success and wonderful.

The thing is, until your willing to go to the place where:
You can see the games you play with yourself.
You can detect the BS your own mind is feeding you.
You can align and get to the truth of what has been keeping you right where you are....

You will remain where you stand. 
The start and stop will continue.
The boom and bust will be forever more. 
The cha cha your dancing with yourself will be never ending.

Your last wheel will eventually fall off and you'll throw the towel on the floor.

The self doubt others place upon you.
The questioning of why is it working for them and not for me.
Those that suddenly need you now.
The chaos of life.
The blowout that throws you off course.

It's all self perpetuated.

You have created and will continue to create this cycle until such a time that you are willing to surrender to the fact that - THERE YOU ARE. You are the only one stopping it and YOU are the only one that can transform it.

Are you going to make a difference and be the change or will you continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and just throw in the towel?

If you are going to be one of us, one that is here for the duration, one that is doing what they are truly meant to be doing. If you are going to make a difference and end this start and stop - self sabotage game you're going to need to do a few things.

You're going to have to get real with exactly where you are in this moment.

You're going to have to be willing to see what you have been doing to keep you right where you are.

You're going to have to learn how to act from alignment. I'm not talking the froufrou version of this feels good to me, or I like how this feels, or I desire to feel like this nonsense.

That has nothing to do with alignment. Making choices based on what feels good has zero relation to actually aligning with your highest, truest version of you and acting from that place.

Let's be honest for a moment. If you were already living the life and doing the work that you say you want to be experiencing....would you be making the same choices today in order to maintain and sustain that success?

No you absolutely would not AND if you say you would I call straight up unapologetic BULLSHIT.

The simple fact is, if what you are currently doing was going to bring you to that life - you would currently be living it. And you are not, therefore you would not. It's not arguable, it's a mute point.

That being said, at least 50% of those reading this will argue it because the idea of looking at where they suck STINGS LIKE HELL. They are in the grouping of - continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and then just throw in the towel?

Surrender to the fact that you'd rather be comfortable than be aligned, see it for what it is, flip it around and MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Or don't.

Either way you will know what to expect and the mysteriousness of your next chaotic set back seemingly happening on cue, will no longer be mysterious.

We really dove into this today in the 90 second interval training. If you were there, you are one that will make a difference. If you didn't catch it and want the replay go grab it HERE

Remember,
Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS. Generalization is the death of your success. 
Discipline your ass to tap in and do ONLY and EXACTLY what needs to be done, tap in to the exact aligned actions you need to follow. 

In this work we: 

Will not be worrying about what others want
Will not be trying to ensure they feel connected to you
Will not be focusing on what you know they need
Will not be creating what you hope they like

You can forget about all of that, because they are organically and authentically drawn into your every word….the ones that are meant to be with you that is. They have no idea who you are, they have no idea where you have been, nor do they care. 

What they KNOW is you ARE THE EXACT PERSON FOR THEM.

And they know because you have tapped in, aligned and TURNED YOUR TRUEST SELF on.

Stop staying comfortable. 
Stop playing small. 
Stop believing you don't know because….

YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO KNOW.

We will not be mindlessly hustling
We will not be doing for doing sake or for because they said you need to sake.

You will be perfecting PURPOSEFUL HUSTLE 
You will be tapping into PRODUCTIVE FLOW

The Exactification of it all is Purposeful Hustle and Productive Flow.

Jump in today and grab the two bonuses that are there for you right now.

The Exactification Smackdow

YOU ARE WHAT YOU NEED

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STOP HANDING OUT PHOTO COPIES

You are what you need

The problem is you have your nose up in everyone else's business.

What are they up to?

What are they saying?

How are they doing it?

How can I make that work for me?

YOU CAN'T because it's not you, it's not meant to be you and it's not soul aligned for you.

You've proven it to yourself over and over and over again and yet - continually you:

Cruse the groups

Peruse their words

Dissect their actions…

and carefully craft a second hand version of the same, while screaming from the mountain tops....

HELLO WORLD I'M OVER HERE!

You've proven to yourself over and over and over again that "it" will never work for you BECAUSE YOUR STILL STANDING HERE DOING THE SAME THING REPEATEDLY.

If it worked, it would have worked by now AND more importantly you would NO LONGER need to continually repeat the process.

Now let's jump to the point...

This tactic will absolutely grab the attention of a few.

It will most certainly stroke your ego

Your mind will be beyond ecstatic

AND

Your soul will be deep inside softly whispering "AGAIN?".

You see your soul will NEVER scream for you or at you, it will continue to whisper until the day finally comes that there is NO OTHER OPTION but to sit your ass down and listen to it's whispers.

AND IT WILL HAPPEN just like tonight the moon will come out regardless of if you see it or not.

It will happen because as quick as your ego and mind are flattered....the cheerleading squad will loose their cheer, burn out will set in and your passionless purpose will no longer be fulfilling.

Cruse the groups

Peruse their words

Dissect their actions

"Again?" she whispers.

"I have so much to share!" she nudges. "Don't you trust me?" she asks. "When is it our turn?" she inquires.

She assures you, "I'll be here waiting until it get's quiet enough for you to hear me."

Dormant she sits while you continue to...

Focus on what they are doing

Try what they are trying

Ignoring her plea...

You are WHAT you need. YOU are WHO you need.

The YOU is what will endlessly fuel your passion and purpose.

The YOU is your content.

The YOU is your unique selling proposition.

The YOU is THE ONLY thing you have that NO ONE else has.

You are the ONLY thing that is NOT duplicatable (given that you are actually being authentic).

There is no rule book of doing you.

But there is a MASTER COPY.

If there is nothing else you take away from this, write this down.

"You are either being a Master Copy or You are handing out someone else's PHOTO COPIES!" © angie peladeau 2018 (because well - you know)

And that my friend is what I see spreading like WILD FIRE.

Photo copies!

"50 Shades of COPY" © angie peladeau 2018 - How long will it take for someone to knock that one off ?!?!

If you are in business to make a difference in the lives of others then it's time to dissect the most basic of business principals.

You spend 80% of your time creating 20% of your results.

You spend 20% of your time creating 80% of your results.

That has been scientifically proven, it's not up for discussion!

That being said, let's take it a step further.

When you find yourself wondering why you are not where you desire to be.

When you find yourself frustrated that you are not seeing lasting results.

When you find yourself tired of the boom and bust cycle.

STOP doing what you are spending 80% of your time doing - BEING A PHTO COPY.

That quick hit of dopamine you get, that fast ego fix, the massive mindfuck that's at play… is it really worth settling for the 20% it's bringing you?

OR

Shall you try sitting your ass down to curate your own thoughts.... while listening to your soul for the whispers that are being gifted to you? The ones that will direct you, STEP by STEP to the very SUCCESS you desire. Might that be worth actually giving AT LEAST 20% of your time to, in order to INCREASE your results by 80%

Just a thought... it's up to you.

That was my 20% for the day - sermon complete.

I was being a little facetious with that statement, but not really.

You see today was one of those days.

I had nothing to say. No agenda to draw upon. I was feeling pretty uninspired and felt like a two year old ready to have a temper tantrum screaming -” I don't want to write, I don't feel like it, why should I have to?”

I started and stopped 7 times. I made a latte, got some chocolate, face timed my daughter, i did everything I could to get out of it AND THEN it all happened effortlessly.

The fingers started typing, I got out of the way letting soul come through and TRUSTED that the Message would be the message and that, THAT was all I was required to do with my 20%.

The other 80% of my day - IT'S MINE to do as I will.

It would have been easy when I was lost for words to spend time

Crusing the groups

Perusing their words

Dissecting their actions

All in an effort to see what and how they get their 80% worth of results but the simple truth is, I would have to give 80% of my day to actually replicate their systems and words in a ay that would make any kind of lasting impact in my own business at which time I would only get 20% of their results anyhow.

So it's up to you.

"You are either being a Master Copy or You are handing out someone else's PHOTO COPIES!" © angie peladeau 2018 (because well - you know)

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy..

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PS The EXACTIFICATION SMACKDOWN has arrived.

THE MINDSET AND STRATEGY FOR CRUSHING YOUR GOALS FOR DRIVEN, HELL-BENT HUSTLERS WHO ARE READY TO GET RESULTS.

And all within the 20% - leaving you the 80% to live your life.

The 80% will be smacked right out of you.

#LETITBEEASY

CHOOSE, BECAUSE NOT CHOOSING IS A CHOICE

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How many times have they said, can’t you make up your mind?

How many times have they asked, why do you keep changing gears?

How many times have they made you feel like you were the most haphazard, unfocused individual out there?

How many times has that left you:

second-guessing yourself,

thinking you should just sit your ass down and get a real job,

or even worse….

accept that “this is it” and stop (what they think is) searching for more?

Don’t you feel bad for them?

They will never have the experience of following their soul.

They won’t get to enjoy that feeling of stepping into who they truly are.

They can’t feel the very real possibilities in life.

They are terrified to say yes just in case they can’t do it.

They need guaranteed security in a way that shackles them to the exact thing that is keeping them from what they actually desire. They live inside of fear daily.

Fear of not being enough

Fear of not having enough

Fear of failing

Fear of being judged

Fear of people abandoning them

Let’s just call a spade a spade - they have a FEAR OF LIVING.

Because frankly all of those things are going to happen in this thing called life….. eventually.

So you can let those fears run you OR you can learn to RUN WITH THEM 😉

I know your one of the few who chooses the second option.

But those that question you, frown upon you, worry about you and cause you to question yourself…. they opt for the first.

Soul led creatives are people who embody:

Willingness

Self awareness

Self responsibility

Trust/Faith

Discipline

Steadfastness

Tenacity

We are rebels at heart, unintentionally sometimes, intentionally other times.

Why….

Because we are committed to our purpose.

Because we know why we are here.

Because settling terrifies our soul.

Because stagnation feels like death.

Because we know what is already ours and...

WE ARE GOING TO HAVE IT - ALL OF IT

And we are unapologetic about it.

We have dissolved the conditioned belief that to want more is greedy.

We know that actually and factually self first is not selfish but in fact IS necessary.

We have stepped into and over the discomfort of allowing what others think to hold us back.

We know that to do ALL of that….. gives others the courage, strength and PERMISSION (that they think they need) to do the same.

You know what you want in life.

You know what lites you up.

You know exactly what you need to do to get there.

You know you are beyond capable.

You know you have the courage and the strength.

You know that it's all waiting for you.

You know there is nothing difficult about it.

You've just forgotten how to access it, you've forgotten how to listen for the answers, you've forgotten how to align with your soul.

You have realized there is a piece of you that get's caught up in what they think.

You have realized that what you say you know and believe vs how you live them out are not a match.

You have realized that you are making it harder and more complicated than it needs to be.

You have realized that it's time to 100% back yourself.

You have realized that to live a soul aligned life and business is to collapse time, release the idea that you need to do anything, let yourself off the hook for having to figure out the how and to step directly into what you've been working so dam hard to achieve.

A Soul aligned life and business has nothing to do with thinking, it has nothing to do with figuring out, it has nothing to do with sitting on a meditation cushion all day, it has nothing to do with woo woo or mystical (it can certainly feel magical when you step into it, I call it Super Flow), it has nothing to do with anyone telling you what to do or how to become successful, it has nothing to do with visualizing, planning, stratagizing, mapping out, thinking about in advance (not even 20 minutes in advance), creating a calender, goals, resolutions or hopes.

It has nothing to do with ALL OF THE THINGS you have been doing that actually and factually are KEEPING YOU FROM what you have been so intently working towards.

Some of what you've been doing may be slowly (as in turtles pace) moving you forward but Soul Led Creatives are not about turtles pace.

They are about the most direct route. They live in the 5D world where they know time does not exist.... GASP. Which actually means there is no need to try, work towards, work up to, do a-b and c before just stepping into the dam thing. It also means they know they have the answers of knowing EXACTLY what THEY need to do to 100% back themselves and live that life.

Here, I'll give you a tangible experience of it and you can have your own truth.

While many will (or have) spend(t) several days and possibly weeks creating a vision board, setting resolutions, choosing words, creating there yearly calender, reviewing their past year, reconsidering it all over and over while wondering what they should add or subtract.

You can ask yourself this - what do I need to do right now to live Next Level Me, in life, in love, in business? Now go do it.

Where do you think they will be two weeks from now and where do you think you will be two weeks from now if you each do the above daily for the next two weeks ?!?!

Turtles pace or collapse time ..... if you truly want next level you, you need to choose which one your going to align yourself with.

Remember,

Life's not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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P.S If you haven't already claimed your spot I have no idea why not, but you need to now. BONUS content begins to be dropped into the course tomorrow. Turtles pace OR collapse time?!?!

NEXT LEVEL YOU - because you have decided.

So here’s there thing that many “successful individuals” rarely share.

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This shit is not at all, all roses.

2018 was a fabulous year, I remember the day my pen journaled on my page I would live in another country 3 months a year. That was at the end of 2015. And here we are completing 2018 with me having done exactly that. ✅

It was 2017 when my pen would write, “what if you simply showed up authentically as 100% you and invited others along the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?” ✅

On an on it goes, the checks beside the words that landed on my journal pages, unknown to me feels great.

The  ✅’s are amazing and exciting and incredible and DON”T HAPPEN BY THEMSELVES.

What they don’t tell you is that between the checks there is a lot of crap that needs to be shovelled.


It’s not all pretty and exciting.

There are days when we don’t feel like it.

There are day’s that we are too exhausted.

There are days that other people need us so much that there is nothing left on reserve for ourselves.


These are the days that many, dare I say most…. throw in the towel. Why? Because, if you don’t recognize what’s happening, if you get so far down the rabbit hole you can’t see the light, if you do not know how to change direction and change it fast, it is all consuming.


I have lived both my dreams and my demons. I am ULTRA human. I am humble. I am an EXTRA - ordinary, human. NOT an extraordinary one.


And through it all what I have learned on a cellular level is, 


YOU GET TO CHOOSE WHEN IT STOPS BEING SO DARM HARD.

YOU GET TO CHOOSE WHEN YOU WILL STOP LETTING IT CONSUME YOU.

YOU GET TO CHOOSE WHEN YOU WILL BEGIN TO TRUST THAT IT CAN BE EASY.


Trust is a choice YOUR CHOICE.


If there is anyone that has the right to speak about trust it is ME and I certainly would not have chosen to have that right. If we were to look at nothing else but the two most all consuming things of this year…


This year I had to trust that a 9 year old car accident that went to trial would not leave us owing 1.3 million dollars. A court case my husband would have to testify at DURING OUR 2 MONTHS IN BALI. Which would mean he had to fly back to Canada and then back to Bail again.


So how does that break down?

Trust that you will still have a home.

Trust that somehow you will be able to feed your family.

Trust that you can keep yourself contained in a way that will not worry the children.

Trust that you should continue living and not start stock piling every cent you have.

Trust that you can connect to your soul and stay in the energy you need to be in to do your work.

Trust that you can somehow stay healthy and not relapse into ptsd and anxiety.

Trust that your marriage will survive the stress of it all.

Trust that you should still go on said trip as it was booked before the trial date was set.

Trust that in the points of complete panic you will be able to pull yourself out of it and come back to trust.

Trust that trusting is enough.


That trust brought forward - us not owing a dime and his flight to go back and forth and hotel accommodations were paid for in full by the insurance company.


To trust something that you have no evidence or good reason to trust is NOT a natural instinct, it is a learned way of showing up in this world.


This year I had to trust that after being hit by a drunk driver 8 years ago my court case would be settled out of court and I could breathe again rather than it going to trial. I had to trust that for whatever reason I had to live being broken down and torn apart by the drunk drivers insurance lawyers. 


I had to experience sitting in a room where they tell you your a fraud, with then watching you for 8 years, with them telling you that they see you smile on social media, that they are going to find your clients and tell them you are a fake when you say your life is good. 


I had to trust that experiencing that was the exact example I needed of what people do when they are not comfortable with you being comfortable and grounded in yourself. 


I had to experience knowing that if I went to trial I was 100% at risk, that no one would insure my case as it wasn’t strong enough (who knew there was such a thing) that my cost at that point was well beyond $200,000 and if I was not found to have life long/altering injury then I got to foot the bill for my side and theirs. 


What a joke who wants the label of life long injury, I’m smarter than that, be careful what you call in. I had to trust my soul when it was in direct opposition to my own lawyer and say, “NO! THIS IS HOW THIS IS GOING TO GO.”


The case settled, no court, they paid out, don’t get excited I got $7,500 which was exactly half of what it cost me out of pocket for treatments after the accident.

Never was I in it for the financial gain. I was sucked into in a way that was not in integrity, it looked nothing like what was explained to me and in the end I knew if they didn’t settle (which why would they, we had already had two pre trials and they refused) I couldn’t even afford to bail on the case financially. I’ve always been an all or nothing gal, but this was beyond anything I would have played my cards on. TRUST was the only available option.


I could go on and on with all the everyday this and that that could have sent me into a tail spin this year, all the reasons I could have bailed, all the reasons many would say I should have… but the simple fact is - 


I trust,


and in the moments I find myself in anything other than trust, what do I do?


Come back to trust.


Trust is a choice.


The only time you will ever be certain that you actually have the faith you think you have is when there is absolutely no other option than to believe.


So there it is, it’s been an absolutely incredible year and probably not in the ways you might have expected me to brag about it.


The moment that stands out most in my mind this year was running into an old friend after getting back from Bali. His greeting was, “hey how are ya, life’s hard egh?” 

He was just being his sarcastic self. Naturally he had no idea of anything except the glorious moments and thought he was a real smart ass.

I responded “Ya!” He looked at me side ways and I followed up with, “when you make it that way”.


I believe that with every cell in my body.


It is what it is and that’s all that it is, in any given moment.


We can choose to create a story around it or we can choose trust. Both are a choice.


So thank you 2018 for teaching me lessons I never asked to learn.


Thank you for shaking me to the core.


Thank you for teaching me what standing in your truth no matter how many millions it may literally cost you is ALWAYS the right thing to do.


Thank you for teaching me that I have what it takes, I am more than enough, I am allowed to take up space, it is safe to show up and speak up and that I GET TO DECIDE what I’m going to choose and I get to expect it to look exactly as I expect it to look.

2019 Next Level You - let’s do this

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard, let it be easy.

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PS - Next Level You is not something that is available to a select few. YOU have to choose to trust, to open to yourself, to commit to doing the work, to looking into what you may not be used to looking into.

You have to choose to see ALL THAT YOU ARE. You have to want more of you in this world. You have to be ready to say:

I have what it takes, I am more than enough, I am allowed to take up space, it is safe to show up and speak up and that I GET TO DECIDE what I’m going to choose and I get to expect it to look exactly as I expect it to look.

Next Level You - it’s waiting for you right HERE