mindset

WHAT IN THE ACTUAL HELL???

 
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It's been a long time comin.

How often have you stepped up once they have stepped up?

How often have you acted based on what they need?

How often have you waited only to wait and wait and wait some more to finally... oops nope STILL WAITING?

It's been a long time comin.

The day you declare - NOPE, NOTTA, NOT ANY MORE.

Remember the day that:

Forever ago you said you know whats meant for you.

Once upon a time felt like it should be easy.

You would not have allowed yourself to second guess yourself.

You didn't jump in with both feet to tiptoe here and there WHEN "they" are ready.

You didn't decide this was going to be your life only to constantly double back to where they are so you could pull "them" forward.

You didn't give a massive HELL YES and follow that up with a maybe, possibly, perhaps eventually...... OR DID YOU?

Who was it that gave you the impression that creating what you hope will be your one day clients "need" will drive you straight towards the exact life you desire?

Who was it that suggested to you that if you write that way, they will feel connected with you and your business with flourish?

Who in actual hell made you believe that - showing up as you, just not so much you and then even a little less you was the way to decode your success?

Success of WHAT?

Snuffing your passion.

Killing your desire which was at one time so natural and effortless.

Erasing your inner knowing of exactly what you need to do AT ALL TIMES.

Ensuring you are never moving forward towards who YOU are meant to be (how the hell can you when you are always going back to where they are and doing what THEY need! Keepin it real).

I'll tell you success of what...

Of burn out

Of boredom

Of passionless, repeatable, boring, uninspiring content

Of the copy cat tactics EVERYONE else uses

Of time waisted convincing them not to be like the others BUT to listen to you

AND

OF WONDERING WHY IN THE ACTUAL HELL it is all so hard when at one time it was so effortless.

Why do you attract the ones that pop in and then suddenly pop OUT?

Why do they grab your FREE stuff, sing your praises and then flea when you have a paid offering?

Why don't they see the worth of your work as the results they will get?

Why aren't they hanging on your every word only to get to the end and think I want more?

It's simple.....

Because there is too much of YOU in the way.

All your I'll say it this way.... no, I'll say it that way.

All your play to their pain points.

All your I have to sound professional, like the expert I am bullshit.

All your I have to find a way to convince them.

All your play small, say it quietly, hope like hell they notice you.

All your I'll make my pretty photos and hope they notice em (and ya'll know I LOVE my photos)

For once, just once pull out your pen RIGHT NOW - because to get your attention I need to shout ;)

Who do you ACTUALLY want to work with? Drop the BS of "those that need me most".

TIP: I have no interest in working with ANYONE who NEEDS me, that's like being in a relationship with someone looking for a Mother. I work with those who WANT, DESIRE and CANNOT WAIT to work with me.

What do you actually have to say?

TIP: Drop the industry fluff, drop what corporate dictates, drop the polished boring stuff.

And MOST IMPORTANTLY

What is the EXCACT thing you would say, do AND offer if you were not expecting or needing it to bring in the MONEY honey?

Drop the attachment the expectation and the desperation of bringing in the cash. DETACH from it completely and for once commit to showing up as 100% you with full FAITH that, THAT IS ENOUGH.

And watch the cash flow in from EXACTLY that.

I work with women who are READY to cut through the crap, the excuses, the nonsense. Women with a hella desire to Next Level their life & are ready to let it be easy.

They don't need convincing of how easy it get's to be, is allowed to be & in fact is - they know it gets to be EXACTLY that easy.

They don't need to work with me, they WANT to work with me. They don't need me to double back and pull them forward - they are hell bent hustlers who do the work and are ready to get results.

And if that remotely resembles who you are or better yet, who you are READY to be then you need my EXACTIFICATION Smackdown and you need to be one of the top 5 - for reasons that will be totally obvious when see what's in store.

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS: Because I am who “I am” and do what “I do”, you will have to check out the EXACTIFICATION Smackdown HERE cause that’s how I’m rolling.

LIVE ANOTHER YEAR BACKWARDS..... KEEP MAKING IT HARD

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I’ll be the first to admit, when I first began to learn that none of this was hard and that we totally do it all backwards I was so resistant.


Naturally it felt like I was a child being scolded, like someone was saying, you idiot you’ve done it all wrong.


In return I fought against it, stopped studying everything I had been studying, threw the books that spoke of it aside, unfollowed anyone that preached about it.


Actually truth be told I had a mentor at that time, my resistance was so strong that my ego quadrupled in size and I responded to one of her emails telling her to get me off her list, that I had unsubscribed on my own already, she was still targeting me and that it was now harassment.


ONLY TO resubscribe a few weeks latter once I had dropped the resistance, leaned in and became curious. As soon as I stopped making the idea that there was another way mean that I had been doing it wrong EVERYTHING changed.


Here we are years latter and I am not to proud to say YES all of it was true, there most certainly is another way and it certainly is not (at first) logical. It absolutely is NOT intuitive.


Now,


While many are gearing up for the year ahead,

I am gearing down.


They’re thinking about who they want to become,

I’m thinking about what I’m releasing and who I will no longer be.


They’re thinking about what they will begin to do,

I’m thinking about what I no longer desire/need to do, shouldn’t have to do.


They’re planing and strategizing how their life and business will look.

I’m dancing with excitement that my mind has so much time off, knowing there is no need for that.


They are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how. 


Intuitively we humans lean into hard, difficult, complicated and challenging.It’s the only logical thing to do simply because the minds ONLY job is to keep us in conflict.


To step into a life of flow, of soul alignment, of letting it all be easy is to be in direct opposition to the mind.


Ya, ya you want it to be easy…I know, I know. I argued that for years.

Wanting, allowing and making it easy are VERY different things.

Wanting will not change a thing.


Deciding and THEN leaning into understanding how so that you can take action from that space and place WILL change everything.


Had I leaned in a whole lot sooner.

Had I dropped the resistance that I had carried for years.

Had I had noticed how big my ego was and what it was doing.


Things would have become so much easier, so much more relaxed, so much more exciting a whole lot sooner.


So while they are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how.


I’m not at all thinking I’m doing it better, I’m not for a second thinking they are doing it wrong.


What I am doing is remembering when I was the one trying…..… for years and years.


What I am doing is extending an invitation to you to lean in, open up, become curious and LET IT BE THAT EASY.


Just for a moment lean in, grab a pen and paper and without thinking respond to this journal prompt. Let what naturally flows out of you land on the page.


If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would ………….

If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would no longer ………


Cheers to Next Level You

Remember,

Life’s not meant to be hard,. Let it be easy.

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PS Soul Alignment and why I can pretty much promise you, your keeping yourself from it. A quick snippet right HERE

CHOOSE, BECAUSE NOT CHOOSING IS A CHOICE

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How many times have they said, can’t you make up your mind?

How many times have they asked, why do you keep changing gears?

How many times have they made you feel like you were the most haphazard, unfocused individual out there?

How many times has that left you:

second-guessing yourself,

thinking you should just sit your ass down and get a real job,

or even worse….

accept that “this is it” and stop (what they think is) searching for more?

Don’t you feel bad for them?

They will never have the experience of following their soul.

They won’t get to enjoy that feeling of stepping into who they truly are.

They can’t feel the very real possibilities in life.

They are terrified to say yes just in case they can’t do it.

They need guaranteed security in a way that shackles them to the exact thing that is keeping them from what they actually desire. They live inside of fear daily.

Fear of not being enough

Fear of not having enough

Fear of failing

Fear of being judged

Fear of people abandoning them

Let’s just call a spade a spade - they have a FEAR OF LIVING.

Because frankly all of those things are going to happen in this thing called life….. eventually.

So you can let those fears run you OR you can learn to RUN WITH THEM 😉

I know your one of the few who chooses the second option.

But those that question you, frown upon you, worry about you and cause you to question yourself…. they opt for the first.

Soul led creatives are people who embody:

Willingness

Self awareness

Self responsibility

Trust/Faith

Discipline

Steadfastness

Tenacity

We are rebels at heart, unintentionally sometimes, intentionally other times.

Why….

Because we are committed to our purpose.

Because we know why we are here.

Because settling terrifies our soul.

Because stagnation feels like death.

Because we know what is already ours and...

WE ARE GOING TO HAVE IT - ALL OF IT

And we are unapologetic about it.

We have dissolved the conditioned belief that to want more is greedy.

We know that actually and factually self first is not selfish but in fact IS necessary.

We have stepped into and over the discomfort of allowing what others think to hold us back.

We know that to do ALL of that….. gives others the courage, strength and PERMISSION (that they think they need) to do the same.

You know what you want in life.

You know what lites you up.

You know exactly what you need to do to get there.

You know you are beyond capable.

You know you have the courage and the strength.

You know that it's all waiting for you.

You know there is nothing difficult about it.

You've just forgotten how to access it, you've forgotten how to listen for the answers, you've forgotten how to align with your soul.

You have realized there is a piece of you that get's caught up in what they think.

You have realized that what you say you know and believe vs how you live them out are not a match.

You have realized that you are making it harder and more complicated than it needs to be.

You have realized that it's time to 100% back yourself.

You have realized that to live a soul aligned life and business is to collapse time, release the idea that you need to do anything, let yourself off the hook for having to figure out the how and to step directly into what you've been working so dam hard to achieve.

A Soul aligned life and business has nothing to do with thinking, it has nothing to do with figuring out, it has nothing to do with sitting on a meditation cushion all day, it has nothing to do with woo woo or mystical (it can certainly feel magical when you step into it, I call it Super Flow), it has nothing to do with anyone telling you what to do or how to become successful, it has nothing to do with visualizing, planning, stratagizing, mapping out, thinking about in advance (not even 20 minutes in advance), creating a calender, goals, resolutions or hopes.

It has nothing to do with ALL OF THE THINGS you have been doing that actually and factually are KEEPING YOU FROM what you have been so intently working towards.

Some of what you've been doing may be slowly (as in turtles pace) moving you forward but Soul Led Creatives are not about turtles pace.

They are about the most direct route. They live in the 5D world where they know time does not exist.... GASP. Which actually means there is no need to try, work towards, work up to, do a-b and c before just stepping into the dam thing. It also means they know they have the answers of knowing EXACTLY what THEY need to do to 100% back themselves and live that life.

Here, I'll give you a tangible experience of it and you can have your own truth.

While many will (or have) spend(t) several days and possibly weeks creating a vision board, setting resolutions, choosing words, creating there yearly calender, reviewing their past year, reconsidering it all over and over while wondering what they should add or subtract.

You can ask yourself this - what do I need to do right now to live Next Level Me, in life, in love, in business? Now go do it.

Where do you think they will be two weeks from now and where do you think you will be two weeks from now if you each do the above daily for the next two weeks ?!?!

Turtles pace or collapse time ..... if you truly want next level you, you need to choose which one your going to align yourself with.

Remember,

Life's not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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P.S If you haven't already claimed your spot I have no idea why not, but you need to now. BONUS content begins to be dropped into the course tomorrow. Turtles pace OR collapse time?!?!

NEXT LEVEL YOU - because you have decided.

STOP the MADNESS at Once.

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It’s all bullshit and it needs to stop. It’s heard mentality, it’s fear mongering, it’s low consciousness.


You listen to them carefully and you act accordingly so what the heck's the problem?


Someone is giving you the secret, the recipe, the formula the ABSOLUTELY must do’s or you’ll never be successful in anything in your life or your work AND….


It’s all bullshit.


Let’s get a few things straight from the start.


What appears as success may indeed be, on the verge of bankruptcy.

Hell I’ve been there only, I went the whole way.


It make look like extreme hustle and nose to the grind, yet behind the scenes it’s a panic attack and anxiety requiring pill popping to calm that shit down. YES that was me.


It make look like incredible discipline and organization. Both sucking tremendous amounts of time and NOT moving the needle one bit and sabotaging the relationship that matter the most.


It make look like plans, lists and vision boards that are completed over and over again all while the last ones are laying crumpled on the floor or stuffed in your drawer - never having been looked at or referred to after having spent all the time on it because that was what the secret was to making the difference in your success.


How many times have you taken action in your life or work because you have heard someone (that of course you perceive to be successful) say to be successful you M U S T do ………


If that person was so dam successful would they need to convince you that you need to DO WHAT THEY DO or that you need them and must pay them to get what they have???


STOP the MADNESS at once.


It’s all bullshit and it needs to stop. It’s heard mentality, it’s fear mongering, it’s low consciousness.


I have no time for it and neither should you.


There is one thing and one thing only that is going to move you forward in any and every area of life. It’s no secret!


Align with your soul, highest self, already successful self who’s waiting for you to come meet her.


And FEEL into what is truly aligned for you. Before you go back to writing your list and thinking about what is aligned DROP the pen. Thats the mind doing more of what you’ve already done above.


Feel, I mean tap into what is ACTUALLY aligned for you. What feels good for you. Make your own rules based on what feels right for you, then and ONLY then take action.


If it is aligned for you to hustle because the truth is that lights you up and you know that is how you best sever the world. If it rules your passion and never leaves you exhausted or burnt out DO IT.


If it is aligned for you to right list after list, checking them off, sticking to them and focusing on that list because you know that is going to bring you to your dreams the fastest and you need that visual accountability to your self DO IT.


If it is aligned for you to focus souly on your business/work 14 hours a day and cut out most other relationships and life experiences because that is your single passion in life and you cannot imagine a day without it DO IT


However if you don’t feel that way about what your doing STOP IT ALL RIGHT NOW.


When you begin to truly align with your soul. When you feel exactly what you need to do and you trust that. When you know with certainty that THAT is right for you.


YOU WILL SUCCEED and IT WILL BECOME EASY


Let me ask you this. Before we had this inter-web of manipulation, fear mongering, heard mentality, I said so, because if you don’t do what I do you’ll never make it…


How do you think anyone figured anything out and actually began living what was once a dream if they didn’t have the whole wide web screaming at them?


Are you up for tuning in and aligning with your soul? 


Yes or No? Let me know in the comments.


Remember, life is not meant to be hard.

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P.S This applies to every area of life. Love, money, work, all of it. Stop looking out for the quick fix. Join in the conversation HERE and let’s shift things.