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PLAN FORWARD AND DON'T STEP BACK

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IT'S GO TIME

Saying you want it.

Visioning it.

Feeling it.

Dreaming about it.

Planning for it.


They are all somewhat beneficial pieces of the puzzle. Yet they are just that. Pieces.


Individually they render themselves useless.

Together they are just as useless UNTIL....


You pair them with forward action.


Suddenly you've created the WHOLE.


Until you are going to decide to take the next action and then the next action and then the next action, until that very thing is a part of your reality it will forever be a thought, a dream, a wish, a hope.


It will remain what others have and you wish you had.


You don't plan for and commit to it today and then promptly go back to doing what you would have been doing tomorrow if you had not decided to commit to it today!


Sound confusing?


A real life experience of exactly that....


It's taken 28 years for my man to come to the understanding that this stuff I talk about (ok maybe preach about) is not theory, is not fluffy, it not wishful thinking, is not woo woo, is not spirituality (well it is but not the way most perceive), is not hard, is not for a select few.


What it is about is your - his - my, ability to actually be integral across all areas of life in a way that allows us to be honest around:


What we truly want vs what we think we want

What has to be done in order to live that

If indeed we are willing to do those things...


In which case if we are not...it's simple.

You don't TRULY want it.


There is literally one question that is needed to move you from where you are into where you TRULY desire to be and in fact, deep down know you can and should be.


The answers that come from that question is exactly where "let it be easy" was born.


You sit down and you plan, you strategize, you think about all the available options, you feel good.


You get back to doing what needed to be done in your day and next thing you know your living yesterday all over again.


You suddenly realize you haven't given thought to that thing that needs to be taken care of 6 months down the road so you start planning for that.


So what's the problem here?


That thing you TRULY want, the one you committed to, the one that once it is your reality means that, that thing 6 months down the road (that you forgot to give thought to) doesn't even exist because it is no longer a part of your life or concerns.


AND YET

You are spending your time and energy getting ready and preparing for EXACTLY THAT.


So which one are you ACTUALLY committed to?

What you truly want or what has been?


Back to my man.


Of course I asked that one question. "So if indeed we already were living that, what would we be doing?"


Naturally him being him... he went to what he would NOT be doing, which is fine as it's one in the same in this case.


"I would not be heating with wood" was his response.


That response alone was enough for him to fully embody 28 years of my "nagging" and the "let it" be easy mantra.


You could feel him relax into to the freedom of not cutting 22 cords of wood a year. The freedom of time. The excitement of the other things we would be doing instead. The realness of it had set in and he GOT IT.


Now the interesting thing is that heating with wood is what he noticed first. There will be no heat source needed inside of our plans so wood heat is a mute point.


But this next part is incredible.


As we walked through the forest in knee deep snow last week, as he had to carry the dog because he couldn't walk any further he says to me.


"I have to start thinking about what area I want to cut from this year"


"Oh, tell me more," I said. "What are you thinking?"


He went on to discuss different parts of the property. I listened and when he was done I simply said, "gosh it sounds like a lot of time tied up in going back and forth?"


He was puzzled. "Are you going to want to travel back and forth to cut wood for someone else to burn?"


His eyes got wider, his smirk began to grow.


"Why are we talking about cutting wood when you already decided that was the thing that was absolutely not needed inside of what it is we ARE doing?"


"You have to plan forward and don't step back. Let it be easy," I reminded him.


"If you want to constantly plan around and act on what was required of you yesterday or last season or last year, you can count on being in that same spot tomorrow and the next day. It's why we have been talking about this "idea" for 14 years and it has never become our reality"


"You stepped forward now stop stepping back.

You have one direction to go and that is FORWARD"


The need to think about wood - was banished!


So the question becomes...


What do you truly want vs what you think you want?

What has to be done in order for YOU to live that?

Are you indeed willing to do THAT?


If it's not a yes, begin again and find a truer true.


AND THEN


Stop stepping back.


You see, this work - this is THE WORK. It is YOUR WORK. The only work in life that matters.


It's the work of integrity

It's the work of a life fully lived.

It's the work of willingness to see when you are not in alignment.

It's the work of mindfulness.

It's the work of awareness.

It's the work of commitment, to yourself

It's the work of expansion in all ares of life.


It's the work of walk the walk don't just talk the talk.

It's the work of stop dreaming it and start living it.

It's the work of inspiring others to do the same, to live their best life by you stepping into yours fully.


This thing you want. The success you desire. The experience and the feelings you long to live inside of. They all come from doing the inner work. You could call it mindset work but frankly it is SO, SO, SO much deeper and more than just mindset.


They are a result of the transformational work and ironically the duality in that is that we are not transforming anything.


We are getting you BACK to who indeed you KNOW deep down you have always been and are launching you into the life that you KNOW is waiting for you.

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy!

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PS It's time to actualize it. It's time to bring it into being. It's time to stop thinking about it and start living it. If you're ready to do it...actually ready...finally,reach out. There is space for 5 people ONLY.

  • 5 people

  • 4 weeks

  • You Pressing GO

  • No stepping back

If you are one of them, reach out HERE and we will see if you are a fit.

That pic above was the first time we fully hit GO. I'll never forget it and what we learned is that once you let it be easy once.... that's the only thing that there is space for.

"When you stop making things complicated, thins stop being complicated" AP

If you're ready, reach out right HERE



WHAT IN THE ACTUAL HELL???

 
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It's been a long time comin.

How often have you stepped up once they have stepped up?

How often have you acted based on what they need?

How often have you waited only to wait and wait and wait some more to finally... oops nope STILL WAITING?

It's been a long time comin.

The day you declare - NOPE, NOTTA, NOT ANY MORE.

Remember the day that:

Forever ago you said you know whats meant for you.

Once upon a time felt like it should be easy.

You would not have allowed yourself to second guess yourself.

You didn't jump in with both feet to tiptoe here and there WHEN "they" are ready.

You didn't decide this was going to be your life only to constantly double back to where they are so you could pull "them" forward.

You didn't give a massive HELL YES and follow that up with a maybe, possibly, perhaps eventually...... OR DID YOU?

Who was it that gave you the impression that creating what you hope will be your one day clients "need" will drive you straight towards the exact life you desire?

Who was it that suggested to you that if you write that way, they will feel connected with you and your business with flourish?

Who in actual hell made you believe that - showing up as you, just not so much you and then even a little less you was the way to decode your success?

Success of WHAT?

Snuffing your passion.

Killing your desire which was at one time so natural and effortless.

Erasing your inner knowing of exactly what you need to do AT ALL TIMES.

Ensuring you are never moving forward towards who YOU are meant to be (how the hell can you when you are always going back to where they are and doing what THEY need! Keepin it real).

I'll tell you success of what...

Of burn out

Of boredom

Of passionless, repeatable, boring, uninspiring content

Of the copy cat tactics EVERYONE else uses

Of time waisted convincing them not to be like the others BUT to listen to you

AND

OF WONDERING WHY IN THE ACTUAL HELL it is all so hard when at one time it was so effortless.

Why do you attract the ones that pop in and then suddenly pop OUT?

Why do they grab your FREE stuff, sing your praises and then flea when you have a paid offering?

Why don't they see the worth of your work as the results they will get?

Why aren't they hanging on your every word only to get to the end and think I want more?

It's simple.....

Because there is too much of YOU in the way.

All your I'll say it this way.... no, I'll say it that way.

All your play to their pain points.

All your I have to sound professional, like the expert I am bullshit.

All your I have to find a way to convince them.

All your play small, say it quietly, hope like hell they notice you.

All your I'll make my pretty photos and hope they notice em (and ya'll know I LOVE my photos)

For once, just once pull out your pen RIGHT NOW - because to get your attention I need to shout ;)

Who do you ACTUALLY want to work with? Drop the BS of "those that need me most".

TIP: I have no interest in working with ANYONE who NEEDS me, that's like being in a relationship with someone looking for a Mother. I work with those who WANT, DESIRE and CANNOT WAIT to work with me.

What do you actually have to say?

TIP: Drop the industry fluff, drop what corporate dictates, drop the polished boring stuff.

And MOST IMPORTANTLY

What is the EXCACT thing you would say, do AND offer if you were not expecting or needing it to bring in the MONEY honey?

Drop the attachment the expectation and the desperation of bringing in the cash. DETACH from it completely and for once commit to showing up as 100% you with full FAITH that, THAT IS ENOUGH.

And watch the cash flow in from EXACTLY that.

I work with women who are READY to cut through the crap, the excuses, the nonsense. Women with a hella desire to Next Level their life & are ready to let it be easy.

They don't need convincing of how easy it get's to be, is allowed to be & in fact is - they know it gets to be EXACTLY that easy.

They don't need to work with me, they WANT to work with me. They don't need me to double back and pull them forward - they are hell bent hustlers who do the work and are ready to get results.

And if that remotely resembles who you are or better yet, who you are READY to be then you need my EXACTIFICATION Smackdown and you need to be one of the top 5 - for reasons that will be totally obvious when see what's in store.

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS: Because I am who “I am” and do what “I do”, you will have to check out the EXACTIFICATION Smackdown HERE cause that’s how I’m rolling.

LIVE ANOTHER YEAR BACKWARDS..... KEEP MAKING IT HARD

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I’ll be the first to admit, when I first began to learn that none of this was hard and that we totally do it all backwards I was so resistant.


Naturally it felt like I was a child being scolded, like someone was saying, you idiot you’ve done it all wrong.


In return I fought against it, stopped studying everything I had been studying, threw the books that spoke of it aside, unfollowed anyone that preached about it.


Actually truth be told I had a mentor at that time, my resistance was so strong that my ego quadrupled in size and I responded to one of her emails telling her to get me off her list, that I had unsubscribed on my own already, she was still targeting me and that it was now harassment.


ONLY TO resubscribe a few weeks latter once I had dropped the resistance, leaned in and became curious. As soon as I stopped making the idea that there was another way mean that I had been doing it wrong EVERYTHING changed.


Here we are years latter and I am not to proud to say YES all of it was true, there most certainly is another way and it certainly is not (at first) logical. It absolutely is NOT intuitive.


Now,


While many are gearing up for the year ahead,

I am gearing down.


They’re thinking about who they want to become,

I’m thinking about what I’m releasing and who I will no longer be.


They’re thinking about what they will begin to do,

I’m thinking about what I no longer desire/need to do, shouldn’t have to do.


They’re planing and strategizing how their life and business will look.

I’m dancing with excitement that my mind has so much time off, knowing there is no need for that.


They are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how. 


Intuitively we humans lean into hard, difficult, complicated and challenging.It’s the only logical thing to do simply because the minds ONLY job is to keep us in conflict.


To step into a life of flow, of soul alignment, of letting it all be easy is to be in direct opposition to the mind.


Ya, ya you want it to be easy…I know, I know. I argued that for years.

Wanting, allowing and making it easy are VERY different things.

Wanting will not change a thing.


Deciding and THEN leaning into understanding how so that you can take action from that space and place WILL change everything.


Had I leaned in a whole lot sooner.

Had I dropped the resistance that I had carried for years.

Had I had noticed how big my ego was and what it was doing.


Things would have become so much easier, so much more relaxed, so much more exciting a whole lot sooner.


So while they are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how.


I’m not at all thinking I’m doing it better, I’m not for a second thinking they are doing it wrong.


What I am doing is remembering when I was the one trying…..… for years and years.


What I am doing is extending an invitation to you to lean in, open up, become curious and LET IT BE THAT EASY.


Just for a moment lean in, grab a pen and paper and without thinking respond to this journal prompt. Let what naturally flows out of you land on the page.


If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would ………….

If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would no longer ………


Cheers to Next Level You

Remember,

Life’s not meant to be hard,. Let it be easy.

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PS Soul Alignment and why I can pretty much promise you, your keeping yourself from it. A quick snippet right HERE

CHOOSE, BECAUSE NOT CHOOSING IS A CHOICE

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How many times have they said, can’t you make up your mind?

How many times have they asked, why do you keep changing gears?

How many times have they made you feel like you were the most haphazard, unfocused individual out there?

How many times has that left you:

second-guessing yourself,

thinking you should just sit your ass down and get a real job,

or even worse….

accept that “this is it” and stop (what they think is) searching for more?

Don’t you feel bad for them?

They will never have the experience of following their soul.

They won’t get to enjoy that feeling of stepping into who they truly are.

They can’t feel the very real possibilities in life.

They are terrified to say yes just in case they can’t do it.

They need guaranteed security in a way that shackles them to the exact thing that is keeping them from what they actually desire. They live inside of fear daily.

Fear of not being enough

Fear of not having enough

Fear of failing

Fear of being judged

Fear of people abandoning them

Let’s just call a spade a spade - they have a FEAR OF LIVING.

Because frankly all of those things are going to happen in this thing called life….. eventually.

So you can let those fears run you OR you can learn to RUN WITH THEM 😉

I know your one of the few who chooses the second option.

But those that question you, frown upon you, worry about you and cause you to question yourself…. they opt for the first.

Soul led creatives are people who embody:

Willingness

Self awareness

Self responsibility

Trust/Faith

Discipline

Steadfastness

Tenacity

We are rebels at heart, unintentionally sometimes, intentionally other times.

Why….

Because we are committed to our purpose.

Because we know why we are here.

Because settling terrifies our soul.

Because stagnation feels like death.

Because we know what is already ours and...

WE ARE GOING TO HAVE IT - ALL OF IT

And we are unapologetic about it.

We have dissolved the conditioned belief that to want more is greedy.

We know that actually and factually self first is not selfish but in fact IS necessary.

We have stepped into and over the discomfort of allowing what others think to hold us back.

We know that to do ALL of that….. gives others the courage, strength and PERMISSION (that they think they need) to do the same.

You know what you want in life.

You know what lites you up.

You know exactly what you need to do to get there.

You know you are beyond capable.

You know you have the courage and the strength.

You know that it's all waiting for you.

You know there is nothing difficult about it.

You've just forgotten how to access it, you've forgotten how to listen for the answers, you've forgotten how to align with your soul.

You have realized there is a piece of you that get's caught up in what they think.

You have realized that what you say you know and believe vs how you live them out are not a match.

You have realized that you are making it harder and more complicated than it needs to be.

You have realized that it's time to 100% back yourself.

You have realized that to live a soul aligned life and business is to collapse time, release the idea that you need to do anything, let yourself off the hook for having to figure out the how and to step directly into what you've been working so dam hard to achieve.

A Soul aligned life and business has nothing to do with thinking, it has nothing to do with figuring out, it has nothing to do with sitting on a meditation cushion all day, it has nothing to do with woo woo or mystical (it can certainly feel magical when you step into it, I call it Super Flow), it has nothing to do with anyone telling you what to do or how to become successful, it has nothing to do with visualizing, planning, stratagizing, mapping out, thinking about in advance (not even 20 minutes in advance), creating a calender, goals, resolutions or hopes.

It has nothing to do with ALL OF THE THINGS you have been doing that actually and factually are KEEPING YOU FROM what you have been so intently working towards.

Some of what you've been doing may be slowly (as in turtles pace) moving you forward but Soul Led Creatives are not about turtles pace.

They are about the most direct route. They live in the 5D world where they know time does not exist.... GASP. Which actually means there is no need to try, work towards, work up to, do a-b and c before just stepping into the dam thing. It also means they know they have the answers of knowing EXACTLY what THEY need to do to 100% back themselves and live that life.

Here, I'll give you a tangible experience of it and you can have your own truth.

While many will (or have) spend(t) several days and possibly weeks creating a vision board, setting resolutions, choosing words, creating there yearly calender, reviewing their past year, reconsidering it all over and over while wondering what they should add or subtract.

You can ask yourself this - what do I need to do right now to live Next Level Me, in life, in love, in business? Now go do it.

Where do you think they will be two weeks from now and where do you think you will be two weeks from now if you each do the above daily for the next two weeks ?!?!

Turtles pace or collapse time ..... if you truly want next level you, you need to choose which one your going to align yourself with.

Remember,

Life's not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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P.S If you haven't already claimed your spot I have no idea why not, but you need to now. BONUS content begins to be dropped into the course tomorrow. Turtles pace OR collapse time?!?!

NEXT LEVEL YOU - because you have decided.

Why I Dropped My Success Coaching Business Over Night

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Entrepreneurship has been my entire life, I could count On one hand the number of years I have ever worked for someone else. How it has looked over the last 18 years has shaped and shifted many times and what once felt in complete alignment began to feel icky.

As a Success Coach to women in business I had the opportunity to increase their income not only substantially but also rather quickly and on my end rather effortlessly.

Systems, strategies, optimization, collapsing time and getting them the results they deserved. It was a win win situation. I was able to do what I was passionate about and they were able to get what they wanted………until they couldn’t!

For me that was the turning point. 

Again and again I would work with amazing women who realized amazing results while we were working together, when they were being held accountable, when I said what needed to be said if they were slacking off or buying into their own stories.

Again and again before long the spiral downwards would reoccur.

I stepped back. I studied how our industry is showing up and how younger coaches are being taught to “market”, suddenly I knew I was done.

Teaching you how to make money is simple. Showing you how to grow your business is easy. Handing you all the systems and straggles that will basically do the heavy lifting for you….. yes I created those too. 

It’s simple for me because I have done the work. I do the work E V E R Y day. Over and over and over again.

What is not in alignment for me is telling you:

You need to do this because it worked for me.

You need to follow these steps if you want to get to where I’m at.

This is how it is done, I have figured it all out.

This is the magic secret.

What is not in integrity for me is:

Guiding you to the belief that I have what you need.

Me telling you that I know exactly what you need to do.

Suggesting that if you do what I do you can have my life.

It’s an ego gratifying endeavour, this coaching world at the moment. It has changed so much, as all things do and it is no longer in alignment with who I am and for that reason…… I AM OUT

What I know to be true not only in my life but in the lives of the women that I have worked with for years is this.

{When you do your work, it works}

What is "it"? What ever it is you desire to bring into your life.

What is “Your Work”?

“Your Work” is where you find the answers that you are currently looking for outside of yourself.

It is where you uncover what has been covered up.

It is where you remember who you are.

It is where you discover what you ACTUALLy want and more importantly what you don’t want.

It is where you learn how to create your own rules around what you need to do and how it’s going to look.

It is where you come to the deepest understanding of why nothing has been creating permanent, sustainable change in your work and in your life. The yo-yo effect stops!

It’s where you learn to tap in, align, dig deep and trust.

It is where Y O U do the work….. all of it.

The one thing I do not ever desire to hear again from any woman is {I wish I had your life}

My wish for you, my walking prayer for you as we walk together is that you create the life that YOU desire and that YOU deserve, that you stop looking at me (or anyone else as being above you)

My wish for you is that as I reintroduce you to the truth of who you are, you take her by the hand and say YES, I am ready to be all that I came here to be.

This is my work, this is your work, this is the work of the women that have gathered together for a year long journey of “Spirit Awakening

This is where I light a spark that sets your soul on fire and slowly you awaken within.

This is the work that creates lasting change.

This is the work that will always guide you to success.

This is the work that truly allows you to feel what you desire to feel in this life because we all know what you truly desire has nothing to do with dollar signs and yet when begin to feel those feels…… the success naturally follows.

If you're ready to stop looking outside of yourself for the answers.

If you are ready to be responsible for doing your work.

If you are ready to stop looking for a quick fix and are ready to learn how to find your own answers.....

You are invited to join us for this incredible journey of "Spirit Awakening"

Remember, life is not meant to be hard.

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His Whispers Felt Like Daggers

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“You are so sexy”.

With ever growing confusion I would wonder, how is it after 28 years with this wonderful man I cannot yet receive these whispers of adoration?

It was as we sat chatting across the world from one another me embracing a steaming morning coffee half dressed, he half asleep undressed and as we’d say our goodbyes his whisper would be “you are so sexy”.

Sitting in the wee morning hours, candles and incense offering sacred space my body began to sob. A longing to receive his words, a desire to fully embrace that knowing and yet a heaviness that would not allow for any of it.

Full article in Elephant Journal HERE

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Remember, life is not meant to be hard.

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