I’ve tried to be so many dam things. One thing here, another thing there.
I'd hear something that resonated deeply that someone else said or did and I was like YUP that's me. And then I"d try that. It felt right for a bit.....
Until, I'd hear someone else say something that resonated and I'd be like, YUP that's me.
It was the "YUP that's me" disease.
Now, there were aspects of each that were true and real to me. They were all PIECES of me. The thing is I flip flopped between them. It left a feeling of incompleteness, uncertainty, fragmentation, a knowing that in fact I was not being "ME" at all.
Passionate yoga teacher
Hard core business coach
So many things, all amazing incredible things, all things that I’m passionate about.
HOWEVER what I know now, is that when I dove into them and tried to be anyone of them 100% I was grasping at what I hopped would feel true and real for me AND that would be accepted by others.
I was only being a piece of me at a time. My work became disjointed. It felt like work. I felt like I was in the business of trying to convince. I felt like a circus act screaming LOOK AT ME, I'm over here and when they didn't look - I'd grasp at the next piece.
It's that grasping at straws, hoping something will stick method.
It's the long route that leads to a dead end where burn out lives beside passionless purpose.
So if those were all pieces of me, what's the big deal, why didn't it work and what else would you do?
What did I realize?
IN FACT what I was doing was hiding from and pushing down what was and is actually and factually me out of a fear of being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.
So if those "pieces" were all part of me and I was to bring it all together marrying everything that I stood for, everything that I know to be true and real through my own experience. If I stopped fearing being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.
What would that mean and how would that look?
Hello, I'm right here. What you see is what you get.
You'll rarely be confused as to what I'm all about and what I have to offer.
You will rarely find anyone else that does what I do, how I do it.
You will rarely find me attracting people who do not align with who I am, how I am and what I am simply because I'll either begin to transform their lives OR I'll piss them off and they'll run.
You see there is no middle ground. BECAUSE, I am all ME.
So the question is, why are you playing hopscotch in the middle ground trying to attract all of those that walk around thinking ahh she's ok, I'll stick around and maybe eventually she'll get to the point.
Just get to the dam point.
Over here with me, I make it super simple for you. There is no question what I do. I make the complex simple. I remove the fluff and bullshit that you cover things up with and I compassionately kick your ass straight into the life you have been wandering around looking for.
Isn't that simple? It's also why my work (aka ME) spans across all areas of your life. It's why you can come to me to sort out one area and by default we sort every area simultaneously. There is a reason, a dam good one I keep telling you to #letitbesimple
You see if your not like me you will run. And for me that is PERFECT because I'm not hear to teach or convince. I'm here to remind you and show you who you actually already are. I'm here to guide you back to that. I'm here to hand you the pitch fork and say, shovel that shit you've covered yourself up with (farmer coming out). I'm here to see what you can't see because your to close to it and nudge you to take another look from a different angle.
"like me" let's be clear, this is not about agreeing with me or believing me.
For the love of God don't believe a thing I say UNTIL you put it into practice and have your own experience of it.
LIKE ME means, hell bent, make shit happen, open, curious and willing. It also means that you KNOW it does not need to be as hard as you are making it, you likely won't know how to make it easy but that's where i come in. What it means above ALL ELSE is you are committed to doing "THE WORK" in order to get the results.
If you've not been around me long you may be saying, "I am doing the work". Stick around, it looks nothing like you would expect it to and it will bring you results that you haven't even yet dreamt up.
Let's get you started right now.
Let's find out who you ACTUALLY are.
Pull out a pen - as in right now. If you’re one of us, you actually do the work you don’t just read the words!!!
At your core, on a cellular level - what do you believe to be true? (don't think about it, just start writing)
Reflecting on your current situation (life, love, work) where are you not living inside of that belief? (if you find your mind telling you that you are....just know that if that was true you'd already have what it is you want. Stop thinking and just write until you find the answer)
What has thrown you off track and lead you down the dead end path?
There you have it, now get to the work of being you.
Stop grasping at straws in hopes something will stick.
Stop mimicking what others are doing in hopes it will work for you.
Stop worrying about if you are going to be noticed.
And get back to the truth of who you ACTUALLY are.
Life it not meant to be hard. Let it be easy!
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