YOU'RE CUT FROM A DIFFERENT CLOTH

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And then the moment of needing to undo all that you you have done has presented itself.

As you scan over the hours of work and efforting that you have spent years inside of you wonder, why.... why didn't I trust myself back then.

Why was I so unsettled in who I was that I needed to make it look "as good as" theirs.

The whispers came,

"Girl the most magnificent thing about you is that, you stand apart.

You know you'll never fit it.

You're cut from a different cloth.

You've never understood how they can settle for so little.

This little rendezvous you've been having with the pretend you, that was me, REMINDING YOU, how boring it is to settle into an overcrowded room.

You've tried the stand on your chair and shout at them approach.

You've tried the look just like them approach.

You've tried the go to all the parties and invite them back to your party method and even though there are many that have come back to party with you....

They are not the people you am meant to serve.

They are the easy targets

They are the - I want what you have but I'm not willing to do the work tag alongs.

They are great people but they do not light you up, it passionless work.

Essentially they are the cheerleading squad which brings you great comfort and soothes your ego as they sign your praises, yet simultaneously they bring great frustrations because...deep inside, you know you are NOT living up to your potential."

You've ignored that whisper and little by little it has become a booming voice that is now firmly stating. "IT IS TIME"

It's time to undo what is not truly and authentically YOU.

It is time to STOP all doing of what does not represent the cloth from which you were cut.

It is time to stop thinking that looking like them will make you stand out.....

AND IT'S TIME TO START

-Being your magnificent, one of a kind, only you, obnoxious self.

-Trying NOT TO fit it.

-Wrapping yourself in your own dam cloth.

-Remembering that you never intended to settle for so little.

And get to being the one that draws in those ready for what you've got to offer. The ones that have been waiting for you but haven't been able to find you because you were hiding in the crowded room.

Those are the ones that stretch you. The ones that make you squirm because you have no choice but to step into all of who you truly are. They are the ones you are meant to serve.

They are the ones that say - Hell Yes, what's next.

I remember the days oh so well of doing all the need to do's.

-The checking off the to do list

-The creating of perfect images.

-The pre scheduled pre written content.

-The searching for perfect stock photos.

-The right number of times, the right time of day, the right day of the week posts.

-The interacting in so many groups.

-The trying to draw them in.

-All of it.

I remember the day I sat and wrote, "what if you just simply showed up as yourself fully - every single day, invited them on the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?"

The hardest thing in the world to do is TRUT that YOU are enough.

The second hardest thing to do is show up as ONLY {you} every single day.

The third hardest thing is to share vulnerably and authentically without all the pretending.

The fourth hardest this is to wait for all of it to come together in creating the life that you thought, you had to be someone else to have.

The sooner you come to a full STOP the sooner it all happens.

Questions for you to ask yourself.

What am I doing in my life, my work and my relationships right now that is exhausting?

What are the things that do not feel like a fair energy exchange between the time they take from me and what they give me in return?

Those are the things that are not true to who you are. Those are the things you are doing because somewhere along the line someone has indicated you "need" to.

Consider this: If I stopped doing those things today, what would I replace them with that in fact would feel like a natural extension of me - which by default would bring the very results I desire.

Remember,

Life is not hard. Let it be easy.

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PS I cannot wait to jump into the Exactification Smackdown with you.

5 days of journeying into the MAGNIFICENCE of who you are.

5 days of finding what it is and who it is that get's to show up in your life and work everyday thereafter and how to bring your brilliance forward effortlessly.

5 days experiencing what happens when you come to a full stop of anything that is a should and get back to the business of being you.

Draping yourself in that cloth and implementing THE MINDSET AND STRATEGY FOR CRUSHING YOUR GOALS. This is for the Hell Yes, What's Next hustlers who are ready to get results as a result of who they are.

Are you ready?