It's been a long time comin.
How often have you stepped up once they have stepped up?
How often have you acted based on what they need?
How often have you waited only to wait and wait and wait some more to finally... oops nope STILL WAITING?
It's been a long time comin.
The day you declare - NOPE, NOTTA, NOT ANY MORE.
Remember the day that:
Forever ago you said you know whats meant for you.
Once upon a time felt like it should be easy.
You would not have allowed yourself to second guess yourself.
You didn't jump in with both feet to tiptoe here and there WHEN "they" are ready.
You didn't decide this was going to be your life only to constantly double back to where they are so you could pull "them" forward.
You didn't give a massive HELL YES and follow that up with a maybe, possibly, perhaps eventually...... OR DID YOU?
Who was it that gave you the impression that creating what you hope will be your one day clients "need" will drive you straight towards the exact life you desire?
Who was it that suggested to you that if you write that way, they will feel connected with you and your business with flourish?
Who in actual hell made you believe that - showing up as you, just not so much you and then even a little less you was the way to decode your success?
Success of WHAT?
Snuffing your passion.
Killing your desire which was at one time so natural and effortless.
Erasing your inner knowing of exactly what you need to do AT ALL TIMES.
Ensuring you are never moving forward towards who YOU are meant to be (how the hell can you when you are always going back to where they are and doing what THEY need! Keepin it real).
I'll tell you success of what...
Of burn out
Of passionless, repeatable, boring, uninspiring content
Of the copy cat tactics EVERYONE else uses
Of time waisted convincing them not to be like the others BUT to listen to you
OF WONDERING WHY IN THE ACTUAL HELL it is all so hard when at one time it was so effortless.
Why do you attract the ones that pop in and then suddenly pop OUT?
Why do they grab your FREE stuff, sing your praises and then flea when you have a paid offering?
Why don't they see the worth of your work as the results they will get?
Why aren't they hanging on your every word only to get to the end and think I want more?
Because there is too much of YOU in the way.
All your I'll say it this way.... no, I'll say it that way.
All your play to their pain points.
All your I have to sound professional, like the expert I am bullshit.
All your I have to find a way to convince them.
All your play small, say it quietly, hope like hell they notice you.
All your I'll make my pretty photos and hope they notice em (and ya'll know I LOVE my photos)
For once, just once pull out your pen RIGHT NOW - because to get your attention I need to shout ;)
Who do you ACTUALLY want to work with? Drop the BS of "those that need me most".
TIP: I have no interest in working with ANYONE who NEEDS me, that's like being in a relationship with someone looking for a Mother. I work with those who WANT, DESIRE and CANNOT WAIT to work with me.
What do you actually have to say?
TIP: Drop the industry fluff, drop what corporate dictates, drop the polished boring stuff.
And MOST IMPORTANTLY
What is the EXCACT thing you would say, do AND offer if you were not expecting or needing it to bring in the MONEY honey?
Drop the attachment the expectation and the desperation of bringing in the cash. DETACH from it completely and for once commit to showing up as 100% you with full FAITH that, THAT IS ENOUGH.
And watch the cash flow in from EXACTLY that.
I work with women who are READY to cut through the crap, the excuses, the nonsense. Women with a hella desire to Next Level their life & are ready to let it be easy.
They don't need convincing of how easy it get's to be, is allowed to be & in fact is - they know it gets to be EXACTLY that easy.
They don't need to work with me, they WANT to work with me. They don't need me to double back and pull them forward - they are hell bent hustlers who do the work and are ready to get results.
And if that remotely resembles who you are or better yet, who you are READY to be then you need my EXACTIFICATION Smackdown and you need to be one of the top 5 - for reasons that will be totally obvious when see what's in store.
Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.