PLAN FORWARD AND DON'T STEP BACK

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IT'S GO TIME

Saying you want it.

Visioning it.

Feeling it.

Dreaming about it.

Planning for it.


They are all somewhat beneficial pieces of the puzzle. Yet they are just that. Pieces.


Individually they render themselves useless.

Together they are just as useless UNTIL....


You pair them with forward action.


Suddenly you've created the WHOLE.


Until you are going to decide to take the next action and then the next action and then the next action, until that very thing is a part of your reality it will forever be a thought, a dream, a wish, a hope.


It will remain what others have and you wish you had.


You don't plan for and commit to it today and then promptly go back to doing what you would have been doing tomorrow if you had not decided to commit to it today!


Sound confusing?


A real life experience of exactly that....


It's taken 28 years for my man to come to the understanding that this stuff I talk about (ok maybe preach about) is not theory, is not fluffy, it not wishful thinking, is not woo woo, is not spirituality (well it is but not the way most perceive), is not hard, is not for a select few.


What it is about is your - his - my, ability to actually be integral across all areas of life in a way that allows us to be honest around:


What we truly want vs what we think we want

What has to be done in order to live that

If indeed we are willing to do those things...


In which case if we are not...it's simple.

You don't TRULY want it.


There is literally one question that is needed to move you from where you are into where you TRULY desire to be and in fact, deep down know you can and should be.


The answers that come from that question is exactly where "let it be easy" was born.


You sit down and you plan, you strategize, you think about all the available options, you feel good.


You get back to doing what needed to be done in your day and next thing you know your living yesterday all over again.


You suddenly realize you haven't given thought to that thing that needs to be taken care of 6 months down the road so you start planning for that.


So what's the problem here?


That thing you TRULY want, the one you committed to, the one that once it is your reality means that, that thing 6 months down the road (that you forgot to give thought to) doesn't even exist because it is no longer a part of your life or concerns.


AND YET

You are spending your time and energy getting ready and preparing for EXACTLY THAT.


So which one are you ACTUALLY committed to?

What you truly want or what has been?


Back to my man.


Of course I asked that one question. "So if indeed we already were living that, what would we be doing?"


Naturally him being him... he went to what he would NOT be doing, which is fine as it's one in the same in this case.


"I would not be heating with wood" was his response.


That response alone was enough for him to fully embody 28 years of my "nagging" and the "let it" be easy mantra.


You could feel him relax into to the freedom of not cutting 22 cords of wood a year. The freedom of time. The excitement of the other things we would be doing instead. The realness of it had set in and he GOT IT.


Now the interesting thing is that heating with wood is what he noticed first. There will be no heat source needed inside of our plans so wood heat is a mute point.


But this next part is incredible.


As we walked through the forest in knee deep snow last week, as he had to carry the dog because he couldn't walk any further he says to me.


"I have to start thinking about what area I want to cut from this year"


"Oh, tell me more," I said. "What are you thinking?"


He went on to discuss different parts of the property. I listened and when he was done I simply said, "gosh it sounds like a lot of time tied up in going back and forth?"


He was puzzled. "Are you going to want to travel back and forth to cut wood for someone else to burn?"


His eyes got wider, his smirk began to grow.


"Why are we talking about cutting wood when you already decided that was the thing that was absolutely not needed inside of what it is we ARE doing?"


"You have to plan forward and don't step back. Let it be easy," I reminded him.


"If you want to constantly plan around and act on what was required of you yesterday or last season or last year, you can count on being in that same spot tomorrow and the next day. It's why we have been talking about this "idea" for 14 years and it has never become our reality"


"You stepped forward now stop stepping back.

You have one direction to go and that is FORWARD"


The need to think about wood - was banished!


So the question becomes...


What do you truly want vs what you think you want?

What has to be done in order for YOU to live that?

Are you indeed willing to do THAT?


If it's not a yes, begin again and find a truer true.


AND THEN


Stop stepping back.


You see, this work - this is THE WORK. It is YOUR WORK. The only work in life that matters.


It's the work of integrity

It's the work of a life fully lived.

It's the work of willingness to see when you are not in alignment.

It's the work of mindfulness.

It's the work of awareness.

It's the work of commitment, to yourself

It's the work of expansion in all ares of life.


It's the work of walk the walk don't just talk the talk.

It's the work of stop dreaming it and start living it.

It's the work of inspiring others to do the same, to live their best life by you stepping into yours fully.


This thing you want. The success you desire. The experience and the feelings you long to live inside of. They all come from doing the inner work. You could call it mindset work but frankly it is SO, SO, SO much deeper and more than just mindset.


They are a result of the transformational work and ironically the duality in that is that we are not transforming anything.


We are getting you BACK to who indeed you KNOW deep down you have always been and are launching you into the life that you KNOW is waiting for you.

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy!

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PS It's time to actualize it. It's time to bring it into being. It's time to stop thinking about it and start living it. If you're ready to do it...actually ready...finally,reach out. There is space for 5 people ONLY.

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That pic above was the first time we fully hit GO. I'll never forget it and what we learned is that once you let it be easy once.... that's the only thing that there is space for.

"When you stop making things complicated, thins stop being complicated" AP

If you're ready, reach out right HERE



YOU'RE CUT FROM A DIFFERENT CLOTH

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And then the moment of needing to undo all that you you have done has presented itself.

As you scan over the hours of work and efforting that you have spent years inside of you wonder, why.... why didn't I trust myself back then.

Why was I so unsettled in who I was that I needed to make it look "as good as" theirs.

The whispers came,

"Girl the most magnificent thing about you is that, you stand apart.

You know you'll never fit it.

You're cut from a different cloth.

You've never understood how they can settle for so little.

This little rendezvous you've been having with the pretend you, that was me, REMINDING YOU, how boring it is to settle into an overcrowded room.

You've tried the stand on your chair and shout at them approach.

You've tried the look just like them approach.

You've tried the go to all the parties and invite them back to your party method and even though there are many that have come back to party with you....

They are not the people you am meant to serve.

They are the easy targets

They are the - I want what you have but I'm not willing to do the work tag alongs.

They are great people but they do not light you up, it passionless work.

Essentially they are the cheerleading squad which brings you great comfort and soothes your ego as they sign your praises, yet simultaneously they bring great frustrations because...deep inside, you know you are NOT living up to your potential."

You've ignored that whisper and little by little it has become a booming voice that is now firmly stating. "IT IS TIME"

It's time to undo what is not truly and authentically YOU.

It is time to STOP all doing of what does not represent the cloth from which you were cut.

It is time to stop thinking that looking like them will make you stand out.....

AND IT'S TIME TO START

-Being your magnificent, one of a kind, only you, obnoxious self.

-Trying NOT TO fit it.

-Wrapping yourself in your own dam cloth.

-Remembering that you never intended to settle for so little.

And get to being the one that draws in those ready for what you've got to offer. The ones that have been waiting for you but haven't been able to find you because you were hiding in the crowded room.

Those are the ones that stretch you. The ones that make you squirm because you have no choice but to step into all of who you truly are. They are the ones you are meant to serve.

They are the ones that say - Hell Yes, what's next.

I remember the days oh so well of doing all the need to do's.

-The checking off the to do list

-The creating of perfect images.

-The pre scheduled pre written content.

-The searching for perfect stock photos.

-The right number of times, the right time of day, the right day of the week posts.

-The interacting in so many groups.

-The trying to draw them in.

-All of it.

I remember the day I sat and wrote, "what if you just simply showed up as yourself fully - every single day, invited them on the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?"

The hardest thing in the world to do is TRUT that YOU are enough.

The second hardest thing to do is show up as ONLY {you} every single day.

The third hardest thing is to share vulnerably and authentically without all the pretending.

The fourth hardest this is to wait for all of it to come together in creating the life that you thought, you had to be someone else to have.

The sooner you come to a full STOP the sooner it all happens.

Questions for you to ask yourself.

What am I doing in my life, my work and my relationships right now that is exhausting?

What are the things that do not feel like a fair energy exchange between the time they take from me and what they give me in return?

Those are the things that are not true to who you are. Those are the things you are doing because somewhere along the line someone has indicated you "need" to.

Consider this: If I stopped doing those things today, what would I replace them with that in fact would feel like a natural extension of me - which by default would bring the very results I desire.

Remember,

Life is not hard. Let it be easy.

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Draping yourself in that cloth and implementing THE MINDSET AND STRATEGY FOR CRUSHING YOUR GOALS. This is for the Hell Yes, What's Next hustlers who are ready to get results as a result of who they are.

Are you ready?

Excavating the YOU that exists beneath the self doubt

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You've done it.

You have proof that you can do it again and yet without fail...

Somehow just when you start to rip it up and step in fully there it is.

The self doubt, the questioning, the wondering, the comparing, the what will they think.

With all of that comes the chaos of life, someone needs your attention NOW, shit hits the fan, you have a blowout with a friend or partner.

That sinking feeling you know so well. There it is once again. It was only moments earlier that you felt like you were soaring and them BAM.

It's as though it happens on cue.

Every time you get a little braver. Every time you step a little further. Every time you begin to taste it a little more fully, it all comes to a roaring halt.

The self doubt created by someone elses words.
The second guessing of, why is it so easy for them and yet I do the same thing and it's not happening for me?
The wondering of why every time things start to feel good, it all comes crashing down.
The comparing of your work and how you do it, to their work and how they do it.
The thoughts of what will they say, will they respond, will this work, what will they think.

It all leaves you standing there frozen. You've lost your momentum. You can't seem to get yourself motivated to get back in the game. 

AND

When you finally do... you start back at the start, trying something new and hoping that THIS TIME it will work.

We have all been there. It is the natural progression of finally stepping into a fully aligned life.

It is what filters out those that are going to make a difference and be the change, from those that will continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and they just throw in the towel.

Very few are here for the duration.
Very few are doing the actual work they are meant to do.
Very few will continue to show up until the point of finally surrendering to the fact that beneath all that shit....THERE YOU ARE.
Very few will excavate the fluff and BS they have been using to cover themselves up with - in hopes that it will protect them from feeling anything but success and wonderful.

The thing is, until your willing to go to the place where:
You can see the games you play with yourself.
You can detect the BS your own mind is feeding you.
You can align and get to the truth of what has been keeping you right where you are....

You will remain where you stand. 
The start and stop will continue.
The boom and bust will be forever more. 
The cha cha your dancing with yourself will be never ending.

Your last wheel will eventually fall off and you'll throw the towel on the floor.

The self doubt others place upon you.
The questioning of why is it working for them and not for me.
Those that suddenly need you now.
The chaos of life.
The blowout that throws you off course.

It's all self perpetuated.

You have created and will continue to create this cycle until such a time that you are willing to surrender to the fact that - THERE YOU ARE. You are the only one stopping it and YOU are the only one that can transform it.

Are you going to make a difference and be the change or will you continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and just throw in the towel?

If you are going to be one of us, one that is here for the duration, one that is doing what they are truly meant to be doing. If you are going to make a difference and end this start and stop - self sabotage game you're going to need to do a few things.

You're going to have to get real with exactly where you are in this moment.

You're going to have to be willing to see what you have been doing to keep you right where you are.

You're going to have to learn how to act from alignment. I'm not talking the froufrou version of this feels good to me, or I like how this feels, or I desire to feel like this nonsense.

That has nothing to do with alignment. Making choices based on what feels good has zero relation to actually aligning with your highest, truest version of you and acting from that place.

Let's be honest for a moment. If you were already living the life and doing the work that you say you want to be experiencing....would you be making the same choices today in order to maintain and sustain that success?

No you absolutely would not AND if you say you would I call straight up unapologetic BULLSHIT.

The simple fact is, if what you are currently doing was going to bring you to that life - you would currently be living it. And you are not, therefore you would not. It's not arguable, it's a mute point.

That being said, at least 50% of those reading this will argue it because the idea of looking at where they suck STINGS LIKE HELL. They are in the grouping of - continue to spin until the last wheel falls off and then just throw in the towel?

Surrender to the fact that you'd rather be comfortable than be aligned, see it for what it is, flip it around and MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Or don't.

Either way you will know what to expect and the mysteriousness of your next chaotic set back seemingly happening on cue, will no longer be mysterious.

We really dove into this today in the 90 second interval training. If you were there, you are one that will make a difference. If you didn't catch it and want the replay go grab it HERE

Remember,
Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS. Generalization is the death of your success. 
Discipline your ass to tap in and do ONLY and EXACTLY what needs to be done, tap in to the exact aligned actions you need to follow. 

In this work we: 

Will not be worrying about what others want
Will not be trying to ensure they feel connected to you
Will not be focusing on what you know they need
Will not be creating what you hope they like

You can forget about all of that, because they are organically and authentically drawn into your every word….the ones that are meant to be with you that is. They have no idea who you are, they have no idea where you have been, nor do they care. 

What they KNOW is you ARE THE EXACT PERSON FOR THEM.

And they know because you have tapped in, aligned and TURNED YOUR TRUEST SELF on.

Stop staying comfortable. 
Stop playing small. 
Stop believing you don't know because….

YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO KNOW.

We will not be mindlessly hustling
We will not be doing for doing sake or for because they said you need to sake.

You will be perfecting PURPOSEFUL HUSTLE 
You will be tapping into PRODUCTIVE FLOW

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Are You Willing To Find who you ACTUALLY in fact are?

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I’ve tried to be so many dam things. One thing here, another thing there.

I'd hear something that resonated deeply that someone else said or did and I was like YUP that's me. And then I"d try that. It felt right for a bit.....

Until, I'd hear someone else say something that resonated and I'd be like, YUP that's me.

It was the "YUP that's me" disease.

Now, there were aspects of each that were true and real to me. They were all PIECES of me. The thing is I flip flopped between them. It left a feeling of incompleteness, uncertainty, fragmentation, a knowing that in fact I was not being "ME" at all.

Hippie

Farmer

Passionate yoga teacher

Spiritual guide

Hard core business coach

So many things, all amazing incredible things, all things that I’m passionate about.

HOWEVER what I know now, is that when I dove into them and tried to be anyone of them 100% I was grasping at what I hopped would feel true and real for me AND that would be accepted by others.

I was only being a piece of me at a time. My work became disjointed. It felt like work. I felt like I was in the business of trying to convince. I felt like a circus act screaming LOOK AT ME, I'm over here and when they didn't look - I'd grasp at the next piece.

It's that grasping at straws, hoping something will stick method.

It's the long route that leads to a dead end where burn out lives beside passionless purpose.

So if those were all pieces of me, what's the big deal, why didn't it work and what else would you do?

What did I realize?

IN FACT what I was doing was hiding from and pushing down what was and is actually and factually me out of a fear of being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.

So if those "pieces" were all part of me and I was to bring it all together marrying everything that I stood for, everything that I know to be true and real through my own experience. If I stopped fearing being too much, too loud, too brash, too controversial, too ME.

What would that mean and how would that look?

Hello, I'm right here. What you see is what you get.

You'll rarely be confused as to what I'm all about and what I have to offer.

You will rarely find anyone else that does what I do, how I do it.

You will rarely find me attracting people who do not align with who I am, how I am and what I am simply because I'll either begin to transform their lives OR I'll piss them off and they'll run.

You see there is no middle ground. BECAUSE, I am all ME.

So the question is, why are you playing hopscotch in the middle ground trying to attract all of those that walk around thinking ahh she's ok, I'll stick around and maybe eventually she'll get to the point.

Just get to the dam point.

Over here with me, I make it super simple for you. There is no question what I do. I make the complex simple. I remove the fluff and bullshit that you cover things up with and I compassionately kick your ass straight into the life you have been wandering around looking for.

Isn't that simple? It's also why my work (aka ME) spans across all areas of your life. It's why you can come to me to sort out one area and by default we sort every area simultaneously. There is a reason, a dam good one I keep telling you to #letitbesimple

You see if your not like me you will run. And for me that is PERFECT because I'm not hear to teach or convince. I'm here to remind you and show you who you actually already are. I'm here to guide you back to that. I'm here to hand you the pitch fork and say, shovel that shit you've covered yourself up with (farmer coming out). I'm here to see what you can't see because your to close to it and nudge you to take another look from a different angle.

"like me" let's be clear, this is not about agreeing with me or believing me.

For the love of God don't believe a thing I say UNTIL you put it into practice and have your own experience of it.

LIKE ME means, hell bent, make shit happen, open, curious and willing. It also means that you KNOW it does not need to be as hard as you are making it, you likely won't know how to make it easy but that's where i come in. What it means above ALL ELSE is you are committed to doing "THE WORK" in order to get the results.

If you've not been around me long you may be saying, "I am doing the work". Stick around, it looks nothing like you would expect it to and it will bring you results that you haven't even yet dreamt up.

Let's get you started right now.

Let's find out who you ACTUALLY are.

Pull out a pen - as in right now. If you’re one of us, you actually do the work you don’t just read the words!!!

At your core, on a cellular level - what do you believe to be true? (don't think about it, just start writing)

Reflecting on your current situation (life, love, work) where are you not living inside of that belief? (if you find your mind telling you that you are....just know that if that was true you'd already have what it is you want. Stop thinking and just write until you find the answer)

What has thrown you off track and lead you down the dead end path?

There you have it, now get to the work of being you.

Stop grasping at straws in hopes something will stick.

Stop mimicking what others are doing in hopes it will work for you.

Stop worrying about if you are going to be noticed.

And get back to the truth of who you ACTUALLY are.

Remember,

Life it not meant to be hard. Let it be easy!

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STOP HANDING OUT PHOTO COPIES

You are what you need

The problem is you have your nose up in everyone else's business.

What are they up to?

What are they saying?

How are they doing it?

How can I make that work for me?

YOU CAN'T because it's not you, it's not meant to be you and it's not soul aligned for you.

You've proven it to yourself over and over and over again and yet - continually you:

Cruse the groups

Peruse their words

Dissect their actions…

and carefully craft a second hand version of the same, while screaming from the mountain tops....

HELLO WORLD I'M OVER HERE!

You've proven to yourself over and over and over again that "it" will never work for you BECAUSE YOUR STILL STANDING HERE DOING THE SAME THING REPEATEDLY.

If it worked, it would have worked by now AND more importantly you would NO LONGER need to continually repeat the process.

Now let's jump to the point...

This tactic will absolutely grab the attention of a few.

It will most certainly stroke your ego

Your mind will be beyond ecstatic

AND

Your soul will be deep inside softly whispering "AGAIN?".

You see your soul will NEVER scream for you or at you, it will continue to whisper until the day finally comes that there is NO OTHER OPTION but to sit your ass down and listen to it's whispers.

AND IT WILL HAPPEN just like tonight the moon will come out regardless of if you see it or not.

It will happen because as quick as your ego and mind are flattered....the cheerleading squad will loose their cheer, burn out will set in and your passionless purpose will no longer be fulfilling.

Cruse the groups

Peruse their words

Dissect their actions

"Again?" she whispers.

"I have so much to share!" she nudges. "Don't you trust me?" she asks. "When is it our turn?" she inquires.

She assures you, "I'll be here waiting until it get's quiet enough for you to hear me."

Dormant she sits while you continue to...

Focus on what they are doing

Try what they are trying

Ignoring her plea...

You are WHAT you need. YOU are WHO you need.

The YOU is what will endlessly fuel your passion and purpose.

The YOU is your content.

The YOU is your unique selling proposition.

The YOU is THE ONLY thing you have that NO ONE else has.

You are the ONLY thing that is NOT duplicatable (given that you are actually being authentic).

There is no rule book of doing you.

But there is a MASTER COPY.

If there is nothing else you take away from this, write this down.

"You are either being a Master Copy or You are handing out someone else's PHOTO COPIES!" © angie peladeau 2018 (because well - you know)

And that my friend is what I see spreading like WILD FIRE.

Photo copies!

"50 Shades of COPY" © angie peladeau 2018 - How long will it take for someone to knock that one off ?!?!

If you are in business to make a difference in the lives of others then it's time to dissect the most basic of business principals.

You spend 80% of your time creating 20% of your results.

You spend 20% of your time creating 80% of your results.

That has been scientifically proven, it's not up for discussion!

That being said, let's take it a step further.

When you find yourself wondering why you are not where you desire to be.

When you find yourself frustrated that you are not seeing lasting results.

When you find yourself tired of the boom and bust cycle.

STOP doing what you are spending 80% of your time doing - BEING A PHTO COPY.

That quick hit of dopamine you get, that fast ego fix, the massive mindfuck that's at play… is it really worth settling for the 20% it's bringing you?

OR

Shall you try sitting your ass down to curate your own thoughts.... while listening to your soul for the whispers that are being gifted to you? The ones that will direct you, STEP by STEP to the very SUCCESS you desire. Might that be worth actually giving AT LEAST 20% of your time to, in order to INCREASE your results by 80%

Just a thought... it's up to you.

That was my 20% for the day - sermon complete.

I was being a little facetious with that statement, but not really.

You see today was one of those days.

I had nothing to say. No agenda to draw upon. I was feeling pretty uninspired and felt like a two year old ready to have a temper tantrum screaming -” I don't want to write, I don't feel like it, why should I have to?”

I started and stopped 7 times. I made a latte, got some chocolate, face timed my daughter, i did everything I could to get out of it AND THEN it all happened effortlessly.

The fingers started typing, I got out of the way letting soul come through and TRUSTED that the Message would be the message and that, THAT was all I was required to do with my 20%.

The other 80% of my day - IT'S MINE to do as I will.

It would have been easy when I was lost for words to spend time

Crusing the groups

Perusing their words

Dissecting their actions

All in an effort to see what and how they get their 80% worth of results but the simple truth is, I would have to give 80% of my day to actually replicate their systems and words in a ay that would make any kind of lasting impact in my own business at which time I would only get 20% of their results anyhow.

So it's up to you.

"You are either being a Master Copy or You are handing out someone else's PHOTO COPIES!" © angie peladeau 2018 (because well - you know)

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy..

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PS The EXACTIFICATION SMACKDOWN has arrived.

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And all within the 20% - leaving you the 80% to live your life.

The 80% will be smacked right out of you.

#LETITBEEASY

WHAT IN THE ACTUAL HELL???

 
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It's been a long time comin.

How often have you stepped up once they have stepped up?

How often have you acted based on what they need?

How often have you waited only to wait and wait and wait some more to finally... oops nope STILL WAITING?

It's been a long time comin.

The day you declare - NOPE, NOTTA, NOT ANY MORE.

Remember the day that:

Forever ago you said you know whats meant for you.

Once upon a time felt like it should be easy.

You would not have allowed yourself to second guess yourself.

You didn't jump in with both feet to tiptoe here and there WHEN "they" are ready.

You didn't decide this was going to be your life only to constantly double back to where they are so you could pull "them" forward.

You didn't give a massive HELL YES and follow that up with a maybe, possibly, perhaps eventually...... OR DID YOU?

Who was it that gave you the impression that creating what you hope will be your one day clients "need" will drive you straight towards the exact life you desire?

Who was it that suggested to you that if you write that way, they will feel connected with you and your business with flourish?

Who in actual hell made you believe that - showing up as you, just not so much you and then even a little less you was the way to decode your success?

Success of WHAT?

Snuffing your passion.

Killing your desire which was at one time so natural and effortless.

Erasing your inner knowing of exactly what you need to do AT ALL TIMES.

Ensuring you are never moving forward towards who YOU are meant to be (how the hell can you when you are always going back to where they are and doing what THEY need! Keepin it real).

I'll tell you success of what...

Of burn out

Of boredom

Of passionless, repeatable, boring, uninspiring content

Of the copy cat tactics EVERYONE else uses

Of time waisted convincing them not to be like the others BUT to listen to you

AND

OF WONDERING WHY IN THE ACTUAL HELL it is all so hard when at one time it was so effortless.

Why do you attract the ones that pop in and then suddenly pop OUT?

Why do they grab your FREE stuff, sing your praises and then flea when you have a paid offering?

Why don't they see the worth of your work as the results they will get?

Why aren't they hanging on your every word only to get to the end and think I want more?

It's simple.....

Because there is too much of YOU in the way.

All your I'll say it this way.... no, I'll say it that way.

All your play to their pain points.

All your I have to sound professional, like the expert I am bullshit.

All your I have to find a way to convince them.

All your play small, say it quietly, hope like hell they notice you.

All your I'll make my pretty photos and hope they notice em (and ya'll know I LOVE my photos)

For once, just once pull out your pen RIGHT NOW - because to get your attention I need to shout ;)

Who do you ACTUALLY want to work with? Drop the BS of "those that need me most".

TIP: I have no interest in working with ANYONE who NEEDS me, that's like being in a relationship with someone looking for a Mother. I work with those who WANT, DESIRE and CANNOT WAIT to work with me.

What do you actually have to say?

TIP: Drop the industry fluff, drop what corporate dictates, drop the polished boring stuff.

And MOST IMPORTANTLY

What is the EXCACT thing you would say, do AND offer if you were not expecting or needing it to bring in the MONEY honey?

Drop the attachment the expectation and the desperation of bringing in the cash. DETACH from it completely and for once commit to showing up as 100% you with full FAITH that, THAT IS ENOUGH.

And watch the cash flow in from EXACTLY that.

I work with women who are READY to cut through the crap, the excuses, the nonsense. Women with a hella desire to Next Level their life & are ready to let it be easy.

They don't need convincing of how easy it get's to be, is allowed to be & in fact is - they know it gets to be EXACTLY that easy.

They don't need to work with me, they WANT to work with me. They don't need me to double back and pull them forward - they are hell bent hustlers who do the work and are ready to get results.

And if that remotely resembles who you are or better yet, who you are READY to be then you need my EXACTIFICATION Smackdown and you need to be one of the top 5 - for reasons that will be totally obvious when see what's in store.

Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS: Because I am who “I am” and do what “I do”, you will have to check out the EXACTIFICATION Smackdown HERE cause that’s how I’m rolling.

HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN

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I used to wonder if in fact I was nothing more than an unrealistic dreamer. What if 10 years from now I look back and suddenly realize I’d waisted all this time trying to make it happen? There was nothing left to try, everyone was laughing at me and I was still looked at as the one that was unrealistic, the one that ran from one thing to another, the one that should have just…?

HOW COULD I KNOW for SURE? How could I move forward? How could I make it HAPPEN?

There was so much pressure, constantly having to prove myself and my worth…that’s what it felt like.

Silently I was plotting out all the ways I could one day say, “told you so”

HOW IN THE HELL WAS I ACTUALLY GOING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN THOUGH?

In the event you had said to me - “stop worrying about it because even after you retire your husband, write the book, design and implement a unique farming model in your province and have worked with the leading professionals in your industry, you will still feel like you have to prove it to them” - I’d have told you to get your head checked.

Your nuts!

And then there I was, having that very experience. Grasping at straws, trying to make it work, searching for answers, implementing everything I could think of, mimicking anyone who slightly resembled success and suddenly I realized, if I didn’t STOP all of this I would absolutely look back 10 years from now and realize I’d waisted all this time “trying” to make it happen.

Trying was not going to cut it for me and I knew that if I was going to MAKE IT HAPPEN that it wasn’t going to be following the typical business practices.

In fact what I knew was, IF I was going to make it happen - the fastest and most direct way to MAKE IT HAPPEN would be to REMOVE all business from it….. that felt like the most freedom I had experienced in years.


Could you imagine. Build a business that consisted of no business! Unrealistic? ….. well if the shoe fits! And I certainly slipped it on with ease.

I was feeling pretty foot loose and fancy free. 

I could literally feel it HAPPENING inside of me. I always knew it could and would happen, but I never dreamt it would be by stopping doing what I was doing. I always preached work smarter not harder. I had always systematized and strategized and optimized the hell out of both of those two things. (how else does a lone farmer only work 5 hours a day and feed 25 families 🙄)

I wouldn’t have thought building a business without doing businesses was going to bring me to a life of pulling our kids out of school and traveling with my family for three months a year. Or watching my husband and son get their pilots license and fly around the skies year round as they are harnessed to a wing and flying free. Or meet the most incredible, determined, motivated, driven, passionate women I have ever met. Or transform lives and relationship through simple sharings. Those things hadn’t even come to mind back then, they were way to far ahead of me.

I WOULD have thought that to make that happen, would require twice the hustle, dozens more hours a week, tens of thousands more dollars, a team to support me, and a horseshoe…. (for the lucky break)


Not even close.


Let’s go backwards for a moment.

This is the fascinating thing (and this is a little insider tip for how you actually make it happen, so listen up). I stopped trying to MAKE it happen.

I literally sat in my yoga studio one day with my journal in hand and the words, “what if you simply showed up fully and completely every single day, invited others on the journey and were handsomely compensated for it?” landed on my page!

Now if that doesn't stun a 15 year entrepreneur, I’m not sure what would.

There I sat for the following three days letting it percolate. What does it mean, how might it look, could it possibly work, HOW DO I MAKE THAT HAPPEN?

I started to review my previous 8 years of business and there it was, all laid out in front of me. THAT was precisely what I had been doing all along. I knew exactly how to do it. In fact it was the only thing I’d ever known how to do. (ask any of my store employees, I’m certain they will tell you I was a heart and soul hustler and all business went by the way side)

It may sound crazy but what I was guided to do was in fact what I had ALWAYS done and yet was totally unaware of.

I suddenly KNEW what had happened, why the struggle, why the wonder if in fact I was nothing more than an unrealistic dreamer. Why it was feeling so hard and impossible, why my bank account was moving in reverse, why nothing seemed to be working no matter how many hours I put in.

I stopped trusting that I KNEW EXACTLY what to do.

I stopped FOLLOWING MYSELF.

I stopped believing it COULD BE THAT EASY

I stopped doing WHAT I HAD ALWAYS DONE

I had started watching THEM

I had started listening to THEM

I had started following THEM

I had started focusing on THEM

I had started to BECOME THEM!!!!!!!!

I had done exactly what you are doing. The difference is I had 15 years experience, I “should” have saw it happening. Chances are what you are currently doing, is what you have been told you need to do and you are simply trusting with blind faith (fair enough, but time to stop).

More importantly, I turned it around within DAYS.

I got back to the business of being ANGIE P, I showed up as me, shamelessly sharing all my flaws and faults, vulnerably sharing the ups and downs of life…..ruffling many feathers along the way, saying things as they are, dropping the fluff and BS, challenging the nonsense that is assumed to be growing you into success, making the complicated easy, offering the Coles Notes version of it it all, because…. well smatter not harder - strategized, systematized and optimized. And naturally because life is not meant to be hard.

So #LETITBEEASY

I wasn’t worrying about if I was doing it right. I wasn’t worried about if I was going to convince you to buy something. I wasn't manipulating anyone to get them on a list. I wasn't using lack mindset strategies to play to your pain points. I wasn’t making it about having to BECOME ANYTHING.

I didn’t plan what I was going to be doing 6 months down the road. WHY? Because I didn’t know who the hell I was going to be in 6 months time. What I did know was that if I just kept showing up AS ME every dam day….. 6 months from now would take care of itself!

I didn’t try to be anything. I showed up as me.  99% of the time hair on point and 99.9% of the time earrings on because well… if you know me - I don’t feel human without those two things. Side note - I was caught in public once straight out of the barn by a very high end client and well let’s just say it traumatized me 😂

It all began to HAPPEN because I was tapping into EXACTLY what I was meant to be doing. I was aligned with the EXACT person I always was but had not yet stepped into being. IT ALL HAPPENED when I began to LET it happen and STOPPED trying to MAKE it happen. (don’t kid yourself here, this part has nothing to do with sitting back and doing nothing!)

The three months trips, watching my husband and son get their pilots license and fly around the skies year round, meeting the most incredible, determined, motivated, driven, passionate women I have ever met, transforming lives and relationships through simple sharings… It’s all a byproduct of the EXACTIFICATION of being you.  (no I did not spell it wrong, I created the word 😉)

Of course there is more to it than just showing up being you. Because let’s be real, at this point you are probably sitting there saying to yourself “I am being me Angie, and it’s not working so, you’re full of it.”

However if you are one of the few still reading… in which case you will be one of the few who know you are going to MAKE IT HAPPEN because you have followed along this far and let’s be honest I’m talking all about myself which to many will feel a little snobbish or holier than thou. Many have been taught to make it all about the potential client that they are trying to convince they are fit for and in turn will be wondering when on earth I will get to the point……

BAM 💥….hello….that was the point! If you are going to make it happen. YOU are the POINT and that is actually and factual exactly what is going to MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Me, well I just came into this world with the understanding that I was going to do what I wanted to do. Seemingly I would arrive with the ability to push buttons, to first piss em off and them have them standing there saying “how in the hell did you just make that happen?”

I’ll never forget wanting to be a fashion designer at 8 yrs old. Begging to use my mom’s sewing machine. Her freaking out with worry saying “absolutely not” and me promptly going to a friends after school only for her mom to pull out her sewing machine and me whipping up pretty dam fancy purse (not to mention lined and all), never having touched a sewing machine or needle before. I pranced home with that thing slung over my shoulder proud as punch AND was promptly grounded and scolded for doing such a thing. Because you know, “you could have put the needle through your finger and how do you think her mom would have felt knowing it was her fault she let you use the machine”🙄

Naturally the only logical outcome from that was - several orders from friends and from my friends parents. Of course at which time my praises were then sung.

I have always believed and understood I could make it happen. It has never been something I am available to question. I have always expected it to happen as imagined just like I expect tomorrow to be Monday.

Regardless of if it was running away from home at 16.

Getting my ass through school AS A FASHION DESIGNER with a surprise first born after the first year. 

Designing, launching and selling my own clothing line.

Raising 4 children off of 25,000 a year for years

Moving beyond major mental and physical traumas

Writing and publishing a book

Founding a chain of boutique stores

Designing an entire farm model for a province.

Surviving bankruptcy

Rebuilding and reestablishing my life after PSTD

Building an online business that allows me to travel the world for months at a time.

Raising my children to know that they can make anything HAPPEN.


It’s just who I am at the core.

I didn’t choose to be this way, it’s how I came into this world.

For whatever reason I just know how to MAKE IT HAPPEN, some may call it stubborn but those that know me… know it goes WAY beyond that.

Somehow, for some reason people know that about me. Or maybe they just sense it and maybe that’s because they are my soul tribe (ok remove the maybe) they are my soul tribe. When something is bad…. real bad… the messages pour in, the request are made, they know that together we can make it happen. They know they get exactly what they need to get and that what is meant to happen is EXACTLY what will HAPPEN as a result of our time together. 

The magic is, they KNOW what is meant to HAPPEN for them before they ever come to me. They know what they EXPECT to HAPPEN before they come to me and therefore we simply MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Because….there is no other available option.

It’s those that KNOW what is meant to happen for them.

It’s those that EXPECT what they desire to happen for them

It’s those who are willing to STOP trying to make it happen and instead let it HAPPEN…

That share the results I live.

What I hadn’t realized all of those years is that, that is EXACTLY what I was doing. It was unconscious and unintentional at the time, it just happened.

NOW…. well now it is the EXACTIFICATION of making it HAPPEN that is what let’s me not only repeat it but also share it with you. 

My purposeful hustle and productive flow have been the design of how to MAKE IT HAPPEN.

It has never JUST happened. I’ve learned how to MAKE it happen. I’ve had to lock it in. I’ve had to unlearn everything that I was conditioned to learn. I have done the work, the mindset work, the personal growth work, the spiritual growth work, the sit your ass on a cushion in silence for 30 days in India work. I have uncovered what was holding me back and have unleashed what let’s it be easy.

So many of my clients, just like you are out there hustling, doing all the things, putting in the time, putting in the money, nose to the grind, working a day job while doing the side gig at night, they show up non-stop and yet their feeling like…

There is nothing to show for it. They cannot get ahead. There is no seemingly logical reason for their lack of results.

If right now you are thinking, “yup I can relate” and if the one day way of thinking - is starting to feel like a time you don’t in fact have time for!

I’m right here.

I know EXACTLY where you are, I know EXACTLY how you feel and I know EXACTLY why it’s happening.

And I am beyond happy to tell you how to shift it NOW.

What still shocks me today is that I had NO IDEA what it was that was keeping me stuck in this business. I was doing all of the “things” I needed to be doing. I did’t have a CLUE why after all that I had invested - both time and money, that I was doing nothing more than spinning my wheels. 

I knew what I wanted. I knew I would make it happen. I was hell bent on having it and frankly, if you’re not hell bent on having it. If your not unapologetic in saying I AM GOING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN, you are not feeling worthy of having it (and that is the main reason you are stuck)

You are hustling 

You feel like your in flow

So what’s the deal.

PURPOSEFUL Hustle and PRODUCTIVE Flow is what you are missing and those are VERY, VERY (I’ll say it again, very) different things that hustle and flow.

You think you have to hustle so you do and then you burn out, whops you think maybe just chilling and hanging out in a feeling of flow will bring your vibe  and energy up and get you some results. You play ping pong with yourself bouncing from one to the other.

Now Purposeful Hustle that’s an entirely different thing. There is NO do for doing sake. There is NO must do, should do or gotta do.

Productive Flow… flow and doing nothing , nope not a match, quite the opposite. Your chilling vibe, just hanging out, waiting for things to feel more flow like so you can jump back into hustle when your vibe is up…. it is never gonna work.

Think strategized, systematized, optimized, truest version of YOU

The Exactification of WHO YOU ARE.

#WHOELSEISTHERE

Here is the thing.

You have to know what you want.

You have to know you are going to MAKE IT HAPPEN.

And from there you need to unapologetically claim it.

You have to to choose Purposeful Hustle.

You have to choose Productive Flow.

You have to choose BOTH simotaneously.

And then you align accordingly.

First, you have to decide you are going to make it happen and that you are going to have it. You must actively align with it and program yourself as already living it (pull out your journal) You must expect that it is happening for you already, in this very moment…and in every moment….”it gets to be easier and easier to make it all happen”….. “I am creating my next level life”… and so on. 

Get clear on how that will look, what it will include, how you will show up inside of it and then from that create your daily mantras. Journal them, think them, speak them to yourself over and over and over every single day. YOU ARE TRANSFORMING YOUR CELLULAR MEMORY, rewiring your mind.

The mind - the very thing that’s keeping you in the patterns you are currently in. You keep pressing play on the same song over and over, it’s time to change the song.

That old song. The one that says:

It’s greedy to want too more.

I need to do this first.

I’m not ready.

I don’t know how.

What if I fail?

What if I’m waisting my time?

What if I get it, only to loose it?

What will they say about me?

Other’s get to have it but I don’t.


You get to delete that track. Erase it and record a new one. 

That is exactly what I have done. But you HAVE TO BE WILLING to do the work.

The work of “right now”. Grab a pen and paper and starting listing every single track that is consciously and sub-consciously playing in your mind on repeat. List the ones you know are there but you try to cover up. (another tip, pay attention: if you aren’t willing to be honest with yourself and see it for what it is you can’t erase the dam track. Do the work, write until you are emptied of the reasons telling you, you can’t or shouldn’t)

And now you are going to begin to MAKE IT HAPPEN. Now you are going to change the track, you are going to write a new song. You are going to claim what is yours. For every reason you listed earlier now you’re going to write a NEW TRACK. What’s actually true, at the deepest core level, from the soul, from the 100% worthy, all deserving you.

List all of the NEW TRACKS you are deciding to play from this moment on. And then every single time you go back to the old song you choose again from your new list. You become aware of where you are replaying the old and you choose from the new - over and over and over again UNTIL IT IS ON AUTOMATIC REPLAY.

Here’s the thing, this IS how you Make it happen AND just as there is duality in everything, it exists here as well. You CAN’T make this happen, you have to LET it happen. It happens by YOU doing the WORK. This work.

I know you desperately want it and you want it now (another tip, listen up: when your grasping at it, pushing and forcing HUSTLING - there is resistance ad desperation in you and that only keeps it further from you). The only way you are going to make it happen is to DO the work continually and then LET it happen. If you DO the work once, twice, three times and then drop the ball - well you’re waisting your time, it won’t work.

I still do the work, on repeat - EVERY DAM DAY

That’s how you,

#LETITBEEASY


And most importantly STOP trying to force it to happen.

Stop telling yourself you’ve done everything and it’s not working.

Stop the start and stop cycle of trying and giving up.


COMMIT to MAKING IT HAPPEN and then LET IT HAPPEN.

When you know EXACTY what you need to do and EXACTLY how to do it - you get to strategize and systematize and then you get to optimize them both SO THAT…. it all happens QUICKER, SOONER, FASTER every single time!

Because what it comes down to is, if you want it to happen for REAL, you have to be the person that is going to make it happen.


Remember,

Life is not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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PS the EXACATIFICATION SMACKDOWN is coming, my latest straight up, no fluff, super low cost and made specifically for YOU, and it’s all around BEING THE PERSON WHO MAKES IT HAPPEN

The Exactification Smackdown: A 5 day smackdown with Angie P, to step into the mindset and strategy of crushing your goals for driven, hell-bent hustlers who are ready to get results.

We will not be mindlessly hustling

We will not be doing for doing sake or for because they said you need to sake.

You will be perfecting PURPOSEFUL HUSTLE 

You will be tapping into PRODUCTIVE FLOW

And you WILL make it happen, which of course you already know because you have always believed that you would, you simply have not known exactly how to do it.

Also? We are going to discipline your ass to tap in and do ONLY and EXACTLY what needs to be done, in order to let it happen with ease - the way it dam well should. What else would you want?!?!

Drop me something below if you need to be a part of this and you’ll get the down low!

WHEN YOU'RE NOT LIVING THE LIFE YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE, THIS IS PROBABLY WHY

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No longer putting off, postponing or procrastinating doing the things that expand, grow and transform my life and business. Sounds so easy. You sing it as though it's a cheer that you personally created. And then it all falls flat.

Getting sucked into the mindless scroll while just checking in for a minute, (because the world may have changed while you were away) to see what's going on. An hour latter (or more) and you’re now at the depths of the deep black hole.

You've not only NOT grown, expanded or transformed but you have chosen to sit stagnant in the same shit you've sat in for ages all while wondering when will I catch a break, when will it be my turn, when will success knock on my door?

You whine and complain to yourself about wishing you had more energy. You hear the conversation on repeat in your head about how one day you are going to live the life of your dreams. You tell yourself you know exactly what you need to do and that you're the only one standing in your way.

And yet....

You choose and decide daily to keep doing all the things that sabotage you rather than stepping directly into what will expand, grow and transform your life.

So then clearly, you love and adore feeling exactly the way you feel. Clearly you are passionate about feeling stuck and stagnant. Obviously what you truthfully desire is to stay right where you are.....

NOOOOO???

So then shit or get off the pot.

This is getting ridiculous.

Stop being such a hypocrite.

Enough pretending.

No more avoiding.

Drop the excuses.

Rationalize and justify no longer.

OWN IT..... I am a fraud.

I say I want white yet I run to black.

I claim I am worthy but will not allow myself to have it.

I preach when the time is right I will.... and then I ensure the time is never right.

All of this has been my truth at different times.

All of this has stirred frustration, resentment and anxiety inside of me at different times.

All of this has left me wanting to scream at myself different times.

Rationalization and justification were my sidekicks. They made it ALL ok. They made me feel good.

UNTIL I was willing to see the truth of what I was doing.

Truth often SUCKS, especially your own truth directed at yourself.

Real, raw, vulnerable truth.

The kind that leads you straight towards...

Expansion - Growth - Transformation

There is only one thing that you need even more than you need truth and that is discipline.

Discipline to repeatedly hold yourself accountable to seeing your truth. To seeing your excuses. To seeing your lies. To seeing what you are CHOOSING which in fact is in direct opposition to what you say you want.

So what's it going to be?

Are you going to commit to the mindless scroll hours a day?

Are you going to commit to validating your worth and your work by the # of likes you get?

Are you going to commit to distracting yourself dozens of times a day?

Are you going to commit to why you can't right now, not yet?

Are you going to commit to using others as your escape?

Or just maybe, is it actually now time?

Time to commit to your inner work for hours a day.

Time to commit to validating your worth and your work by how you show up daily.

Time to commit to seeing when you are getting sucked in dozens of times a day.

Time to commit to it's time, right now.

Time to commit to showing up in your own life so that others can grow, expand and transform their lives as well - thanks to you?

So what's it going to be?

What do you have to gain by continuing the way you are?

What can you expect things to look like if you repeatedly choose the way you have been?

For how long are you willing to buy into your own excuses?

There are all kinds of reasons people fall into this way of existing, if you can even call it that. It's not really their fault. They are just doing what everyone else is doing, they've gotten sucked in.

You on the other hand, I know are not a follower. You are a leader, one that desires to make a difference in the lives of others. One that is committed to truth in all forms.

You have a willingness to see what needs to be seen in order to grow, expand and transform your life. It begins here and now. The opportunity for you to do so is right here. Get to the truth of the matter, rip the bandaid off, stop trying to protect yourself from yourself and dive in.

Don't allow yourself to do one more thing, don't get off your chair, don't check a notification, don't get out of the car, don't pour a coffee until you make yourself answer these questions.

What do you have to gain by continuing the way you are?

What can you expect things to look like if you repeatedly choose the way you have been?

For how long are you willing to buy into your own excuses?

The purpose of these questions, which I would highly suggest you journal on daily....up until a time that you cannot only see but also feel how ridiculous it all is and you begin to laugh at yourself for ever thinking it was a good idea to play these games with yourself.

Is to allow you to see that indeed the stories you had been telling yourself, the excuses you were making, the distractions you were engaging in were just that. Once you sit with all of this and allow the truth to be seen and felt you will automatically begin to choose actions and efforts that will indeed grow, expand and transform your life..... because you will see that for you there is no other option.

You are not someone who continually self sabotages once you have seen what you are doing. You demand of yourself to grow, expand and transform. It's what you do, it's who you are.

The clearer you get on all of this, the deeper truths you are willing to admit, the easier it becomes to act from alignment and to know what actions need to be taken that you have been avoiding.

And once you have answered those questions (AND NOT UNTIL) begin to answer these: (daily, until you live the results you are expecting)

What I choose to consciously commit to is...

By disciplining myself and not allowing myself to get sucked into distractions I can expect.....

By committing to my inner work first {every day} without exception I can expect....

By committing to continually be aware of when I am getting sucked in and then returning to aligned action I can expect....

What the hell is the Inner Work Angie?!?!

Get to the truth of you every single day.

Learn who you are beyond what the mind and ego wold have you believe.

Align with soul and hear what you're being told and guided to do in every minute.

The perfect place to dive into all of that is RIGHT HERE.

365 days of FREE Soul Upgrades.

Short, sweet, to the point POWERFUL, LIFE CHANGING, EXPANDING journal/contemplation prompts.

Remember,

Life’s not meant to be hard. Let it be easy

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PS If you’re ready for this, I mean really ready for this. If you’re done accepting status quo and are one that demands your Next Level You life right now. If you’re done waiting for it. Get in here

We have begun and you are welcome to join in. The Advance Bonus content is there and is yours even if your just joining now.

The women inside are experiencing brand new ways of accessing their next level but not only new ways. They have realized how EASY it truly is.

Not that I am surprised however it excites me to no end to hear that they are returning to the daily work over and over going deeper and deeper each time.

If you’re just stepping into moving beyond the mind and learning how to feel into soul guidance you may need all the details. Grab them here

LIVE ANOTHER YEAR BACKWARDS..... KEEP MAKING IT HARD

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I’ll be the first to admit, when I first began to learn that none of this was hard and that we totally do it all backwards I was so resistant.


Naturally it felt like I was a child being scolded, like someone was saying, you idiot you’ve done it all wrong.


In return I fought against it, stopped studying everything I had been studying, threw the books that spoke of it aside, unfollowed anyone that preached about it.


Actually truth be told I had a mentor at that time, my resistance was so strong that my ego quadrupled in size and I responded to one of her emails telling her to get me off her list, that I had unsubscribed on my own already, she was still targeting me and that it was now harassment.


ONLY TO resubscribe a few weeks latter once I had dropped the resistance, leaned in and became curious. As soon as I stopped making the idea that there was another way mean that I had been doing it wrong EVERYTHING changed.


Here we are years latter and I am not to proud to say YES all of it was true, there most certainly is another way and it certainly is not (at first) logical. It absolutely is NOT intuitive.


Now,


While many are gearing up for the year ahead,

I am gearing down.


They’re thinking about who they want to become,

I’m thinking about what I’m releasing and who I will no longer be.


They’re thinking about what they will begin to do,

I’m thinking about what I no longer desire/need to do, shouldn’t have to do.


They’re planing and strategizing how their life and business will look.

I’m dancing with excitement that my mind has so much time off, knowing there is no need for that.


They are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how. 


Intuitively we humans lean into hard, difficult, complicated and challenging.It’s the only logical thing to do simply because the minds ONLY job is to keep us in conflict.


To step into a life of flow, of soul alignment, of letting it all be easy is to be in direct opposition to the mind.


Ya, ya you want it to be easy…I know, I know. I argued that for years.

Wanting, allowing and making it easy are VERY different things.

Wanting will not change a thing.


Deciding and THEN leaning into understanding how so that you can take action from that space and place WILL change everything.


Had I leaned in a whole lot sooner.

Had I dropped the resistance that I had carried for years.

Had I had noticed how big my ego was and what it was doing.


Things would have become so much easier, so much more relaxed, so much more exciting a whole lot sooner.


So while they are plotting out the “how” to do it all and make it all happen.

I’m sipping a latte, going for walks, getting a massage or maybe getting my hair done - knowing that IS the how.


I’m not at all thinking I’m doing it better, I’m not for a second thinking they are doing it wrong.


What I am doing is remembering when I was the one trying…..… for years and years.


What I am doing is extending an invitation to you to lean in, open up, become curious and LET IT BE THAT EASY.


Just for a moment lean in, grab a pen and paper and without thinking respond to this journal prompt. Let what naturally flows out of you land on the page.


If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would ………….

If I truly believed that it was allowed to be that easy I would no longer ………


Cheers to Next Level You

Remember,

Life’s not meant to be hard,. Let it be easy.

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PS Soul Alignment and why I can pretty much promise you, your keeping yourself from it. A quick snippet right HERE

CHOOSE, BECAUSE NOT CHOOSING IS A CHOICE

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How many times have they said, can’t you make up your mind?

How many times have they asked, why do you keep changing gears?

How many times have they made you feel like you were the most haphazard, unfocused individual out there?

How many times has that left you:

second-guessing yourself,

thinking you should just sit your ass down and get a real job,

or even worse….

accept that “this is it” and stop (what they think is) searching for more?

Don’t you feel bad for them?

They will never have the experience of following their soul.

They won’t get to enjoy that feeling of stepping into who they truly are.

They can’t feel the very real possibilities in life.

They are terrified to say yes just in case they can’t do it.

They need guaranteed security in a way that shackles them to the exact thing that is keeping them from what they actually desire. They live inside of fear daily.

Fear of not being enough

Fear of not having enough

Fear of failing

Fear of being judged

Fear of people abandoning them

Let’s just call a spade a spade - they have a FEAR OF LIVING.

Because frankly all of those things are going to happen in this thing called life….. eventually.

So you can let those fears run you OR you can learn to RUN WITH THEM 😉

I know your one of the few who chooses the second option.

But those that question you, frown upon you, worry about you and cause you to question yourself…. they opt for the first.

Soul led creatives are people who embody:

Willingness

Self awareness

Self responsibility

Trust/Faith

Discipline

Steadfastness

Tenacity

We are rebels at heart, unintentionally sometimes, intentionally other times.

Why….

Because we are committed to our purpose.

Because we know why we are here.

Because settling terrifies our soul.

Because stagnation feels like death.

Because we know what is already ours and...

WE ARE GOING TO HAVE IT - ALL OF IT

And we are unapologetic about it.

We have dissolved the conditioned belief that to want more is greedy.

We know that actually and factually self first is not selfish but in fact IS necessary.

We have stepped into and over the discomfort of allowing what others think to hold us back.

We know that to do ALL of that….. gives others the courage, strength and PERMISSION (that they think they need) to do the same.

You know what you want in life.

You know what lites you up.

You know exactly what you need to do to get there.

You know you are beyond capable.

You know you have the courage and the strength.

You know that it's all waiting for you.

You know there is nothing difficult about it.

You've just forgotten how to access it, you've forgotten how to listen for the answers, you've forgotten how to align with your soul.

You have realized there is a piece of you that get's caught up in what they think.

You have realized that what you say you know and believe vs how you live them out are not a match.

You have realized that you are making it harder and more complicated than it needs to be.

You have realized that it's time to 100% back yourself.

You have realized that to live a soul aligned life and business is to collapse time, release the idea that you need to do anything, let yourself off the hook for having to figure out the how and to step directly into what you've been working so dam hard to achieve.

A Soul aligned life and business has nothing to do with thinking, it has nothing to do with figuring out, it has nothing to do with sitting on a meditation cushion all day, it has nothing to do with woo woo or mystical (it can certainly feel magical when you step into it, I call it Super Flow), it has nothing to do with anyone telling you what to do or how to become successful, it has nothing to do with visualizing, planning, stratagizing, mapping out, thinking about in advance (not even 20 minutes in advance), creating a calender, goals, resolutions or hopes.

It has nothing to do with ALL OF THE THINGS you have been doing that actually and factually are KEEPING YOU FROM what you have been so intently working towards.

Some of what you've been doing may be slowly (as in turtles pace) moving you forward but Soul Led Creatives are not about turtles pace.

They are about the most direct route. They live in the 5D world where they know time does not exist.... GASP. Which actually means there is no need to try, work towards, work up to, do a-b and c before just stepping into the dam thing. It also means they know they have the answers of knowing EXACTLY what THEY need to do to 100% back themselves and live that life.

Here, I'll give you a tangible experience of it and you can have your own truth.

While many will (or have) spend(t) several days and possibly weeks creating a vision board, setting resolutions, choosing words, creating there yearly calender, reviewing their past year, reconsidering it all over and over while wondering what they should add or subtract.

You can ask yourself this - what do I need to do right now to live Next Level Me, in life, in love, in business? Now go do it.

Where do you think they will be two weeks from now and where do you think you will be two weeks from now if you each do the above daily for the next two weeks ?!?!

Turtles pace or collapse time ..... if you truly want next level you, you need to choose which one your going to align yourself with.

Remember,

Life's not meant to be hard. Let it be easy.

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P.S If you haven't already claimed your spot I have no idea why not, but you need to now. BONUS content begins to be dropped into the course tomorrow. Turtles pace OR collapse time?!?!

NEXT LEVEL YOU - because you have decided.